What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 18
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? New York
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Student
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 10
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None
Drunken After Prom Fun
How long ago did this hookup happen? One Year Ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For 1 to 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He was one year younger than me. Average height and weight, with long-ish, shaggy brown hair. He spoke with a stutter and was also a complete nerd, round glasses and everything. We sat next to each other in orchestra class for two years, and he was nice enough, although he clearly had a huge crush on me. The signs were all there, from him holding the door for me, to getting me instrument every day, and even staring at my boobs when he thought I wasn’t looking. It was cute, and I’ll admit to being attracted to him. When prom rolled around I figured bringing him would be better than going with any of the fuckboys who were in my grade.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We headed to a hotel room after the prom ended. When we got there, I pulled out a bottle of Fireball I’d been saving for a special occasion. He’d never drank before, but eventually realized he liked the taste and the feeling. Before I knew it, we had finished the entire bottle and were absolutely trashed. He was being timid though, so I instigated by jumping on him and going right for his neck with my mouth. I remember wanting to fuck him so badly.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We made out violently for I don’t know how long. I slid my dress down to let him finally kiss and touch the boobs he’d been staring at for 2 years. Next thing I know, we’re both naked and I’m getting what felt like the best oral ever. He got me close to climax, when I took control again and started sucking his dick. He came relatively quickly (I later found out he was a virgin) but stayed hard.
Then came the fucking. I started on top and spent a while riding him. After I could tell he was close, he comes out of nowhere, flips me over, and fucks me like there’s no tomorrow. We came at almost the same time, and I’ve never been so turned on as when I felt him fill me up after ejaculating.
We went at it like it like two animals the rest of the night, before passing out drunk. We woke up sick as hell, but still managed to have satisfying morning hangover sex.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We spent the next day recovering from the night before, which included lots of water, a bath, and yes, more sex. He and I agreed to keep things casual since I was heading to college in a few months, and then went our separate ways. I still feel a connection with him though, and no sexual experience I’ve had since then has come close to being as pleasurable or satisfying.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Intoxication
How intoxicated were you? Completely wasted
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Completely wasted
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I talked to a few friends, who were shocked that he was so good. They encouraged me to pursue something with him, but I didn’t.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? It was hands down the best sex of my life, from beginning to end.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Not being able to pursue anything further with my partner.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I love it. People are meant to have sex. It’s a way to connect with people, and I think that society should be more open about it.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It’s a great way to share stories that you’re otherwise embarrassed to anywhere else.
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