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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 22
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? England
Highest education received: High school diploma
What’s your occupation? Driver
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 13
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 2

Drunken tinder hookup

How long ago did this hookup happen? Around a year ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a month

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? My partner was about 5 foot 4 with ginger hair and a slim build with piercing green eyes, she was a university student in a city near me and we had met through tinder a few weeks before the hookup

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? It was around 3am in the morning and I was still awake watching some T.V when I got a phone call from the girl asking me to come over and keep her company after the night out she had drinking, it was only a 20 minute drive away so I thought why not.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? When I got to her place she took me straight to the bedroom and got undressed into her pants and got into bed, this was the first time meeting her and I was trying to work out if she was too drunk for me to want to hookup, as I didn’t want to take advantage. So I sat on the end of her bed fully clothed and we chatted for a long time until she sobered up, I then went in for the kiss and we started making out on her bed for a good 20 minutes, she then asked me to take my clothes off so I did. I then kissed her all the way down her body until I was in between her thighs, I sucked and licked her clit while fingering her and rubbing her G spot until she had came, this probably took around 5 minutes, I was surprised because it’s my favourite foreplay to do yet she came too fast for me to really get into it and enjoy it, I wanted to carry on but she insisted on having sex. She got a condom from one of her draws and put it on me, I found this hot as I usually always put it on myself, she then laid on her back and we started doing missionary. She seemed very shy to do any other position and didn’t seem very experienced sexually so this got a. It got boring for me, eventually she said she would go on top which she did however she didn’t really seem to know what to do and didn’t seem comfortable in what she was doing. I said it’s okay to go on your back again and I continued to fuck her deep stick while rubbing her clit so she came again. She then said she was feeling sore so we stopped

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? A little

Did you have an orgasm? No, but I was close

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After the hookup I stayed with her and chatted for a little bit before saying I best get back off home because I had to be up early in the morning to take my car for an M.O.T test. The next day she messaged me saying she had a really good time and it would be nice too see me again, I replied a few hours later saying sure but I would only want to see her as a friend, haven’t really spoke much since then. We still Snapchat each other now and again but I don’t really regret not hooking up with her again.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Boredom

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? A little bit

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I told my friends, they did agree that it was probably not worth seeing her again

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Neutral

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The spontaneous sex

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? The fact I didn’t finish

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No I still have the same opinions on casual sex

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Somewhat positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? All things said, she was extremely pretty.

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I think casual sex is a great way too have fun and meet new people, it keeps my life fun and I definitely couldn’t live without it and this point in time

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I think it’s an awesome idea and gives you so much insight into other people’s encounters

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!