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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 59
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Attorney
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (open)
Religious affiliation: Jewish
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 93
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 8

Dungeon Sex

How long ago did this hookup happen? December 2017

What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (open)

How would you best classify this hookup? Group sex

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was a smoking hot blonde, early 50’s with a perfect body, beautiful face and a sparkling, zen personality. I met her at a birthday party for a friend who is a dom. There were scores of people there, but when she walked into the party, I knew I had to meet her. A friend of mine (who I have played with before) knew her and made the introduction.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? After socializing over drinks, my girlfriend and I moved into the dungeon, stripped, and she started going down on me. There were 20 or so naked people having sex in the dungeon while we were there. Kim and her husband came in while I was getting a blow job, she stripped and gave her hubby a bj. Then she lay down next to me and she and I started kissing while her hubby went down on her and my gf went down on me. We then swapped partners, I went down on Kim and she came so loud that everyone stopped fucking to watch us. I then fucked her in multiple positions and gave her many more orgasms.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Kissing, oral sex, vaginal fucking. It felt great, she has a smoking hot body and was multi-orgasmic, a very sensual and beautiful woman with an incredible body. She was also a great kisser.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? No, but I was close

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We went out to dinner with Kim and her husband a couple of months later. Had a great time but we have not played again. Would like to play with her again.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s)

How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Various friends, who live vicariously through me 🙂

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? I picked the hottest girl in the party, met her and fucked her.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Girlfriend was involved in a dungeon accident and got injured.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I live for casual sex!

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? I was quite proud of myself, as at 59, I am no Greek God. But I am funny and charming and I know how to please women. Selecting the hottest girl to meet and fuck made me feel really good about myself that night and for a long time afterwards.

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? We need much more Casual Sex in our uptight, politically correct, divided society. Make love, not war!

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Love it!

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!