by Stang

Gender: Male
Age: 31
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (currently pursuing)
Relationship status: Single
Religious affiliation: Christian
Any other term(s) that describe your sexual orientation/sexuality better/best? Oversexed
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 12
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0


How long ago did this hookup happen? Last Year

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Short Fling

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was a very cute girl (19) I met in the park while walking my dog. I didn’t know her at all but we talked for about 45 minutes. I was nervous and felt exhilarated because I just wanted something sleazy.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? The sun went down and I instigated it and was straight forward and honest by saying my heart is pounding.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? It took no time to start kissing and caressing at the picnic table. It got chilli and we ended up in my car. I made bold advances with my hands and was shocked to feel how wet I made her so I asked for a blowjob.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? I came and she came before I put my hands in her pants.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? None. I’m clean.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I was desperate.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? No

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I felt satisfied. I expected to have a few booty calls and got them. I feel bad because she was emotionally fragile but not too bad because I got her so wet every time. She had too many issues.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I told no one.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes and yes.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? Yes because usually there’s some type of connection and I felt sorry for her because of her situation. I made no promises to her. She fell in love after the next hookup.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The best – such a good kisser
The Worst – knowing that she’s a wreck. 
Yes, I need to make sure that the next hookup is with a girl that knows it’s just hookup.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? A little positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

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