What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 25
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? Praha
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? adventurous
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? +15
Ecstasy hook up
How long ago did this hookup happen? 3 days ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I was visiting my good friend in town whom I haven’t seen in quite a long time. After having couple of drinks at home, we decided to go clubbing in a famous club in town. After one hour of dancing and having more drinks and not seeing anyone to whom I might be interested in, a guy showed up on the dance floor. He was tall, about 28y old, really good looking but not my type at all at the first sight. I made eye contact with him and he came immediately to me and we started dancing together. He was so confident! And a fabulous dancer as well.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? After couple of minutes of fairly hot dancing and touching, he kissed me and it felt amazing. We left the dance floor and continued to make out. I think we were both having a good time together and the vibes were quite good so at some point he offered me to take an extasy and I agreed (I do have some experience with mdma and with a right person, it is a great way to boost the night). We both took just a half and it was enough for the night. We went back dancing together and the energy was just going through my whole body and of course I felt even more aroused and so did he. So we decided to leave the place and to go to his place.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? When we finally came to his place, we were both super excited and the mdma even increased the feeling. We started kissing, undressed quickly and I realised how great his body was. He was really strong and athletic and his skin was actually really soft and felt great to touch which turned me on even more. We hit the bed quickly and I started to suck his cock (he was hard already, but I do like to start with oral before actual sex). Then he went down on me and he was really good at it. I could not hold it anymore and told him to fuck me and so he did. His penis was not the biggest one, but I loved the feeling of him being inside me. We fucked in all possible positions missionary, doggy style and we even spooned, which normally most guys don’t do. The sex was quite rough, he slapped me couple of times, he was pinching my hips and he also fucked me in my ass, but I think it wasn’t really his thing. With the extasy he could last forever, it was never ending….we were sweating and our bodies were quite sticky. After approximately one hour of fucking, we were really tired so we stopped and he started to finger my ass and then my pussy and I came so quickly while screaming loudly with his hand on my mouth, because his roommates were actually in the next room.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? No
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We felt asleep in each others arms. I felt really safe with him, which does not happen often with one night stands. I woke up before him and left the flat without even knowing his name.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s)
How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did you consume? Alcohol, MDMA, ecstasy, molly
How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol, MDMA, ecstasy, molly
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My friends, were happy for me
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The physical attraction to my partner, the extasy
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? That he did not have an orgasm, but this happen quite often with guys on mdma
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I love it!
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