What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 55
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Australia
What’s your occupation? Self employed
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 12
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None
How long ago did this hookup happen? 25 years
What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For 1 to 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Her husband worked for me and I knew she was a naughty girl. She was young and very hot. Very flirty. Always giving me sly looks. She would sit across from me and I could see her panties and she knew it. Her short skirt would blow up on a windy day, she would turn and smile, knowing I would be watching.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? One day I was driving near her home and thought why not drop in. I called my office to make sure her husband was at work, and then proceeded to her house. She opened the door, smiled and asked if I would like coffee. I nodded and I followed her to the kitchen.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I had wanted to fuck her from the first day I met her, so I walked up behind her gently bit her on the shoulder and started caressing her stomach and tits. Within seconds I was gently rubbing her nicely groomed pussy. She didn’t turn around, she just spread her legs a little. I held her hard against my body, my raging boner was hard in her back, my left hand caressing a nipple and my right hand rubbing her clit. She had a knee trembling orgasm within minutes of me walking in the door. After she regrouped, she took my hand and led me to their bedroom. She sat on the edge of her bed, unzipped me and sucked my cock until I blew in her mouth. Other than the offer of coffee and my acceptance, no other words were spoken. I just smiled and left. I think we had a lot of sexual tension that was released.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Guilty, excited, horny. Had no expectations of anything really. It was something that both of us wanted and we got it out of our systems. It’s a great memory for me and I hope it was memorable for her.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Thought it was an important experience to have
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? One mate. He was as excited as I was.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The forbidden nature of it. No one was hurt. Lasting memories. As much as it was never mentioned again, we knew we had a secret.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? It was cheating, and as much as I justify it as harmless because no one was hurt, it’s still cheating
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Sometimes it needs to be done. We got the inevitable out of the way and got on with life.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? I’m glad it happened. I have no regrets, and I hope she has the same feeling.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Sometimes, people just need to fuck and get it out of their system.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I like the stories and I hope the other readers like mine.
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