What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 60
What’s your race/ethnicity? Hispanic / Latino/a
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Media
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? A little kink on occasion
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? Over 50
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 14
Enjoying Another Guy’s Woman
How long ago did this hookup happen? 8 years ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For 1 to 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Amy was a slim blonde 45-year old Jewish lady who had a boyfriend who lived in another city. She was a pretty lady with a great body. We hung out from time to time. We went to the movies and were good friends.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We were planning to go out for dinner, and for some reason, Amy wanted to do something different. I suggested grabbing a bottle of wine and hanging out by the local bay. She went for that in a funny way, so off we went. We sat on my truck bed knocking back some wine when she suddenly became emotional about her faraway boyfriend. I held her and said, “It was okay and let’s have another glass of wine.” As I poured, she leaned over and kissed my neck. That’s all it took!
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end?
I turned and kissed her directly, full tongue. Amy loved that and moaned. I suggested we go somewhere, like my house. It was on! By the time we arrived, Amy was rubbing my stiff cock through my pants. I let her to my bedroom where her clothes came off fast, exposing a body I had fantasized about. I sucked on her perfect tits and fingered her as she stroked my cock. Next thing I knew was that my cock was in Amy’s mouth. She knew what to do. I came in her mouth, and she swallowed every drop. We lay in bed and I was fingering her some more, and she stroked me some, making me hard. Once my dick was stiff, I slid into Amy’s hot pussy, and it was great. Whatever boyfriend there was, he was forgotten. I fucked Amy in every position until I came on her beautiful ass when I doggy fucked her. What a night.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We continued to fuck on occasion. She was not sorry for cheating on her boyfriend since what he didn’t know didn’t hurt him. But she eventually moved to be with him.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, Withdrawal
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Intoxication
How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one knew
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Enjoyed a beautiful woman who needed a good fucking. Only glad to help.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? She moved.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No. Like casual sex.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? No
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Good forum.
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