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What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 20
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? The Netherlands
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Student
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Very
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 3
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Evening Gone Wrong

How long ago did this hookup happen? Last night

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Once in a while when I am bored, I go on whisper and usually end up talking to guys. Most of them stop sending me messages after a day or so, but this one stuck around and eventually we began texting a couple times a week. We wanted to meet up, but he didn’t have much time, so I kind of gave up. Lets call him N. I already knew he was going to a bit shorter than me, but it didn’t bother me much. He is a blond guy with green eyes and has an athletic build.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I had been horny all weekend and solo just wasn’t going to do it anymore. I was home alone that week (my parent went on vacation) so I thought, why not text N as we already had gone a bit sexual in our texts. I texted him and said I was frustrated sexually. He answered that he was that too. I invited him over to my house to solve that problem and he was really suprised I did, but he did come over. We talked for a really long time and no one really made a move.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end?  When it got late and he almost wanted to go home, we started kissing on couch. I sat on his lap and after some intense making out, he unhooked my bra and touched my boobs. I took off my shirt and my bra and he sucked my nipples and we kissed more. I asked if he wanted to come upstairs to continue the fun there. When we got to my room, I took of my skirt and was only left in my thong. I laid down and he was on top of me. I took off his shirt and he took of my thong and went down on me. All my previous partners had been really bad at oral, but he was pretty good and actually got me going. He also inserted a finger, but I wanted more so I asked for two. He was licking my clit while stimulating my g spot and after some time I came. I wanted to return the favor so we turned around and I took off his pants and boxers to reveal a nicely sized dick. I took him in my mouth and sucked him for a couple of minutes, but he said I had to go slower as he was already close (he hadn’t had sex for a while). After we kissed again, I wanted to go back, but I saw blood and was really confused. His dick was bleeding, apparantly I torn his frenulum while sucking. It bled a lot and I got tissues right away. He said everything was okay and it didn’t hurt too much, but of course this meant the end of our night.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Somewhat

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? No

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We cleaned up and he stayed until the bleeding stopped. I felt really guilty, but he assured me it was okay and it had happend one time before. We just have to wait a couple of weeks and then we can hook up again, he said, so fortuntately I didn’t ruin it.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, Condoms, Discussed STI testing history, No penetrative sex happened

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting

How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one yet

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? We had a fun time talking together before and during the hookup too. I even got an orgasm out of it.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? That I made his dick bleed.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Not really

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I think it is a good website to read what is actually going on behind closed doors in people’s lives.

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!