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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 45
What’s your race/ethnicity? Hispanic / Latino/a
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Bay Area, California
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Artist
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Straight
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? Oh wow, I could not tell you. I have to say 15 to 20.
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None

My Ex-Girlfriend and I Have an MFM!

How long ago did this hookup happen? This happened 20 years ago but I still think about it.

What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (monogamous)

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was a short light skinned, long haired Latina with a pretty face, dimples, big ass and a perfect set of tits!

My best friend at the time was about 5’8″, dark skinned Latino, slicked back hair and in good shape. He was a lady killer. He attracted hot looking chicks every time we went out! He even fucked a hot Latina in the dark while Raquel and I were in the same hotel room one night! Hearing them fucking, turned us on!

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? My best friend was always at our place so we all got real close. He would always call and ask R for advice on relationships. She was always cracking up at his jokes and goofiness. I also started noticing that they teased and flirted with one another. There was a lot of touchy feel that happened between the two whenever they were around each other. It turned me on because I have always fantasized watching my GF being fucked by other men. I began to imagine what would happen if we talked my GF into trying a threesome. We were in bed watching a sex flick and she confessed of finding him very attractive. I asked her if she would be down to fuck him? She sheepishly smiled at me and quietly replied, maybe if it felt like the right thing to do at that time. We talked and talked about it until it finally happened one warm night! I started talking to my best friend of the idea of helping me seduce her and he seemed to get very excited at the thought of us having a threesome. He also confessed that he had fantasized about fucking her before.
Well, that night was finally here and the three of us stumbled into our hotel room drunk and in a good mood after a night of dancing and drinking at the club. It was a double bed hotel room that we had until the next day. When she went in to take a shower, I asked him if he was ready to fuck? He said “hell yes” as I went and joined her in the shower. We both came out together and told him that the shower was his. He smiled when he saw us wrapped in white towels and jumped in after us. We both stripped off our towels and slid under the cool sheets and kept the room dark. He didn’t take long to shower and walked out with only his towel. I watched her stare at his body and smile as he dropped his towel and slowly slid under his bed sheets. I thought this would be the perfect time to make my move on her! We were all horny so it didn’t take long before we began playing with each other under the sheets. I whispered in her ear that our friend was down to try a threesome. She moaned as I slid my fingers in her wet hot pussy. I dared her in her ear to get up and go join our guy friend in his bed. I teased her that she was scared to do it! She asked me in a playful sexy whisper if I wanted to watch her go suck and fuck my best friend! I replied that I couldn’t wait to see her do him while I watch! She gave me a kiss on the lips and quietly left our bed and joined our friend on his bed!

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? They immediately started making out! I got up and pulled up a chair next to his bed and started stroking my hard cock as I watched her sucking on his hardening cock as he laid on his back. I had seen his cock before but never hard. She sucked on his cock like if it were a lollipop and he became hard as a rock! It got huge as she continued to stroke and lick him harder! After about 15 minutes of her sucking his throbbing cock, he moaned and pushed his cock deep in her mouth and when he looked like he was ready to shoot his load, I told him that I wanted him to now fuck her! They switched positions with her on her back and him on his knees. He held her legs up in the air and slipped his cock into her wet pussy! She began to moan loud and begged him to fuck her harder! He kept asking her if she could feel his cock and began to pound her pussy faster! R cried out “Yes, fuck that pussy!” He began making out with her as she still moaned in lust as he fucked her harder! I got up and guided my throbbing cock into her mouth! She was now laying sideways and he was fucking her sideways. I couldn’t hold it any longer and I tried to shoot off in her mouth but she pulled back and I shot my cum on her face instead! When F was ready to cum, she told him to cum in her pussy! He let out a loud groan as his cum shot deep into her pussy!

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We woke up late and got ready to be out of the room by checkout time. My GF felt a little embarrassed and avoided eye contact with us but was smiling. Us guys teased her and made her laugh and feel at ease as we got ready. After that, me and her would talk about it when we were horny and in bed but nothing ever happened again between the three of us. She had said that she would try it again with him and he, of course, said that he would love to join us again! Things happened after that and me and my GF split up, F and I will talk every so often but went our own ways. It’s too bad because I would love to have a three-way with the two of them again.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Intoxication

How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I have told the story to a couple of close friends and my current GF. They called me a freak!

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Mixed (Some positive, some negative)

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The best thing was the memory that we created. I still think about that crazy night.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? There was nothing bad about it but I wish we could have had more threesomes together.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? It pushed me to want to have more threesomes and group sex in the future.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? I wish we could do it again! 😉

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I am a fan of enjoying yourself and being open to new sexual experiences. As long as we are careful, I feel like we should all make love instead of hating one another.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? This is a great forum! I am new to it but I am planning on going through the site.

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!