What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 46
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? England
Highest education received: High school diploma
What’s your occupation? Accounts
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 5
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
Ex-Wife’s Best Friend
How long ago did this hookup happen? 6 years
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For 1 to 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Mandy was about my age slim with a good figure and fairly short dark hair and single. She was a best friend of my wife and I fancied her.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I had recently split up from my wife and had moved out. I was travelling past Mandy’s house and decided to call in as I saw her car was in the drive. No planning just called in .We both sort of instigated what happened.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? She let me in and asked how I was. She made coffee and we sat talking on her sofa. Not sure how exactly but the conversation turned to sex and I remarked It had been a while and she said it was the same for her. I kissed her and she responded. I then through her blouse felt her breast, she did nothing to stop me, we stopped kissing and she seemed to be watching me rubbing and squeezing her breast, she did nothing when I undid a few blouse buttons and slipped my hand inside feeling her over her bra and then her nipple under the bra. She did gasp and I noticed she was undoing her blouse completely, she slipped it off and I removed her bra. I kissed and fondled her breasts, she kept gasping. Then I felt a tug on my belt and saw she was undoing it, she unzipped my trousers and eased out my cock which was very hard. She then moved so she was kneeling in front of me and after a small hesitation she took me into her mouth and started to give me a blow job. I kept feeling her breasts.
She was not too good at the blowjob but I was certainly getting near. I told her this and she stopped the blow job and started to wank me, after a couple of minutes I came, two large spurts the first landing on her breasts the second her stomach and leggings, more got onto to couch. She said “Oh God look at that!”
She kept rubbing me until all the cum was out and my erection started to subside. She then sat back and said “I better get some tissues”. She cleaned up. We sat and talked. She then asked if I would stay the night. Which I did, but I will relate that tale another time.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? No
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Felt good and sexually relieved.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, No penetrative sex happened
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), I was feeling lonely
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Each other
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Getting to cum and relieve sexual tension and finding a new friend with benefits
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? She didnt cum
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? If everyone consents its okay
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Interesting
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