by Samantha

Gender: Female
Age: 45
Race/ethnicity: White
Current location: Kentucky
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
Occupation: Real Estate
Relationship status: Married
Religious affiliation: Baptist
How religious are you? A little
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 6
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Exciting Experience with Bad Result

How long ago did this hookup happen? 7 months

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? One-night stand

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I met this younger guy at a conference that I attended last November. He was very handsome and interesting. It was the first time we had met.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We were at a conference and had been out to dinner and drinks. I hardly ever drink so I was very relaxed. We had danced a few times then as the evening ended he walked me to my hotel room. He ask if he could come in for a while and I didn’t hesitate inviting him in dspite the fact that I am married.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Once in the room we kissed and ended up laying on the bed. We were kissing and he ran his hand up my skirt and started foreplay. I had never cheated on my husband but he got me horny and it was exciting. He was very gentle and knew just what to do. I told him he would need to use a condom because I wasn’t on birth control since my husband had had a vasectomy. When he said he didn’t have one I through caution to the wind and had the most fantastic sex with him.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? When he was ready to come he let me know and when he did I had an awesome orgasm which was not a good thing as i found out a couple of weeks later.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? We did nothing to avoid me getting pregnant. Nothing was discussed concerning STD’s.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? It was a  spontaneous thing.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? No

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Immediately after I had no regrets. Me being married neither of us expect anythong further after that night. However, he got me pregnant so I asked for help with the cost of an abortion which he kindly did.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My best friend who help me arrange getting away for a few days to have the abortion.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? I do not regret hooking up with him since it was very enjoyable. I do wish we had used protection which would have avoided the pregnancy.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The sex was fantastic. Getting pregnant was not in the plan.
I would definitely have sex with him again.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

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