What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 40
What’s your race/ethnicity? Hispanic / Latino/a
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? Denmark
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Accountant
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Married and enjoying extramarital sex
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 21
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Extreme Sexual Chemistry & Squirting

How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 months

What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (monogamous)

How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For 1 to 3 years

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? This guy was Hispanic with soft caramel skin. Very athletic and deep brown eyes. We met two years ago in a club and had a drunk one night stand in a hotel. Because we have such good memories of that hookup we meet up whenever we’re on the same continent.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I was visiting his town and he’d known for some time I was coming. I actually thought he forgot about it but he texted me the night of my arrival and asked if I wanted to come over to his apartment. I was so jet-lagged but I still took an Uber there. I was visiting a friend at the time and had to make up a story about meeting other friends, so she could look after my two kids who were asleep.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? He left the apartment door ajar and was in the shower when I came in. We were talking for a couple of minutes while he was still in de shower. And when he came out I was just in awe. I’m usually chatty and not shy, but with him, I get so quiet. When I’d went to his place before we used to have sex on the couch, but this time he took me in the bedroom which felt a little more intimate. I started sucking him, I love his cock. The way it fills my mouth and throat while I look into his eyes gets me so horny every time. He loves me to lick his balls and ass, which I only do for him. He then pushed me on the bed and started licking my wet and waxed pussy. Almost immediately I felt the squirting begin, I just couldn’t stop. He kept licking and it was just spraying in his mouth and face. Then, I turned around so he could fuck me doggy style. His dick is big so I felt it pound deep inside of me until I came again. Later, he started fucking me missionary and then choking me until he came.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? There is this strange sexual chemistry between us. I always fall in love with him after hooking up, because the sex is so good. Personality wise I’m not sure we would be a good match as I tend to clam up around him and be very submissive. We have fun and we try out new things every time. I’ve come to terms with having limited contact between our meetings. And I do see other people, but he’s the best.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms, IUD (Intrauterine device), Exchanged recent STI test results

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, Submission / Relinquishing power

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Two close friends. They’re happy for me and joke about the soaked bed.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Do you regret this hookup? A little bit

Why do you regret this hookup? I regret having to lie to my husband about something that makes me feel so happy

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The chemistry between us and the squirting

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I would love to have these experiences without having to betray someone. They are important to my personal development, the building of confidence and sexual growth.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I would hope everybody could be free to have casual experiences if they feel like it. I understand it must be hard if you’re actually looking for a relationship in this hookup culture. I’m in the privileged position to have it all, both a strong marriage and casual hookups, that’s what it seems like in the Uber back home.

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