Race/ethnicity: Indian (South Asian)
Current location: Michigan
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
Relationship status: Single
Religious affiliation: Hindu
How religious are you? Somewhat
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 6
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
Failure To Look Past Looks
How long ago did this hookup happen? One year ago
How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? One night stand
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was overweight (not pretty at all); I met them online and we had agreed not to know too much about each other. I was really curious about being with a bigger girl, so I was excited before going in.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I found her online on a dating site. From previous relationships/flings I realized that I really only liked skinny and athletic girls, and had no love for the bigger ones. I thought that I should try to not be superficial and see if I was sexually compatible with a fat girl, and if I was I wanted to evaluate how I view my relationships.
I messaged her, she lived in a nearby city and we discussed what we were into sexually and let things go from there.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We were really awkward when we met up at the local Starbucks; we walked around for a bit before we decided to go to my apartment. When we got to my place and started removing each others clothes, I was immediately repulsed. It really hadn’t struck me till that point how ugly excessive fat really was. I did not want to shame her though, and we had been touching each other quite a bit so I was already hard, so I decided to go through with it. The last thing I wanted to do was hurt her feelings, even if I knew this wasn’t going to be a lot of fun.
We had oral and vaginal sex. Honestly, the widest pussy I have ever been in, I couldn’t believe there was such little pressure from her walls. She seemed to be enjoying it though. When I first went in the warmth was nice as always, but she couldn’t move very well, and as she started to sweat she began to smell bad. The more she sweat, the colder her skin became, and since she was so big I couldn’t just wrap myself around her and keep her warm; so, every time I moved around I would feel cold skin.
She then gave me oral, and she had no idea to keep her teeth out of the way, but she was really good with her tongue. Unfortunately the pain from her teeth ruined it, and it wasn’t very satisfying.
She then rode me, then I turned her over doggy style, and soon after, she came – she was really wet, which surprised me because I figured she couldn’t feel me all that great given how loose it felt. Surprisingly enough, she did not look so bad from the back, and it was fun playing with her tits. Too bad her body odor was only getting worse with time. I ended up finishing in the condom inside her.
Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? Yes and Yes.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? I wore a condom, we did not discuss STI history.
What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I wanted to know if I could look past a persons looks so that if I were in a long term relationship, could I just love someone as they are and live with it without desiring someone else.
Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? No, we were both sober.
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? She left and we did not keep in touch. I didn’t enjoy it, and I learned that I’m just not attracted to overweight people, and I don’t ever want to have sex with one again. I wish her all the best and hope she has a good life as I do for all people, but being with a fat girl is not for me.
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one, this would be way too embarrassing to tell anyone.
Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes and Yes.
Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? Yes I regret this hookup, I should have just been honest with myself that I do not like overweight girls. Does it make me shallow? No, I value their life and their feelings, but I am not sexually attracted to them. I don’t make that call, my body (and dick) does.
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Doggystyle was the highlight, even if it couldn’t compare to previous bangs. The worst was the blowjob, just way too much teeth. I now know without a shadow of a doubt that big girls are not my thing. I don’t want to bang one ever again.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Not at all positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Very negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup or anything else? I don’t want anyone overweight who reads this post to feel poorly about themselves, I just want to share my personal experience and feelings. For anyone seeking to lose weight, I hope this provides some motivation; your sex life could be so much better!
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