Race/ethnicity: British Jewish
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
Relationship status: married
Religious affiliation: atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 300+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? one
How long ago did this hookup happen? 18 years
How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? one night stand
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Did not know her, it was in a bar and we got talking. She was a waitress/chamber maid in a large hotel and was from the north of England.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We got chatting in a bar, turned out we had the same birthsign. We sat on a wall outside the bar and started kissing. I walked her back to the hotel staff house where she was living. Once we arrived, she asked me up to her room to drink some wine and carry on chatting.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We sat on her bed and kissed more, we ended up naked and preformed some fore play. I noticed that she had false teeth which is my major recollection as I was surprised that she had them at that age. We had very vigorous sex and the leg of the bed broke and collapsed underneath us. She was worried about having to pay for the bed and I knelt and bent the bed leg back into place.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? No protection on my part, no discussions.
What were your REASONS for having this hookup? Seemed like a natural progression
Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? Yes
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I left her room, I saw her once a few months later and she was chatting with another man. We acknowledged each other, but I didn’t interrupt.
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one
Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? I believe so
Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? It was ok average sex for a one night stand
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Not at all positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
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