What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 45
What’s your race/ethnicity? Middle Eastern
What continent do you live on? Africa
What country and/or city do you live in? Egypt
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Executive secretary
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Closeted bisexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 3
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None
How long ago did this hookup happen? Last year
What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
How would you best classify this hookup? Unplanned hookup
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was a brunette with a curvey figure in her late 30s. I did not know her before and it was the first time we met. She was a friend of a friend (woman) of mine. I was at my friend’s place and she just called in. My friend introduced us to each other. She was very friendly and we soon got along with each other as if we knew other for a long time. I was attracted to her personality and I enjoyed talking with her as we had much in common in terms of general views of life. I was also attracted to her beauty and assets. I had been fantasising about being with another woman for years, but never acted on it.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? After an hour or so, I wanted to leave and she offered to give me a lift as she wanted to leave as well. It was not planned at all, but I did not hesitate to accept her offer with thanks as she would relieve me of taking a taxi and also because I felt I want to spend some more time with her. I did think of her sexually, but just the way I had been doing for years with other several women I knew. I did not have any intention or thought to do anything more than that. Once in her car, we continued our conversation and soon we were talking about fashion and lingerie. When I told her I like lingerie a lot, she said she was selling lingerie online and would give me a good discount. I asked her to email me the catalogue or the link to her website, she offered to show them to me at her place instead. I started feeling something could happen and got confused, but very excited. I told her I had to go home, but thanked her for the offer and promised I would do later. I wanted to give myself a chance to think it over. We exchanged mobile phone numbers as she dropped me at my place.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I spent the whole evening thinking and the urge to see her again was so intense. The next morning I called her to arrange for visiting her at her place and we agreed to have it in the afternoon on the same day. When I arrived there, she gave me a very warm welcome and after a few minutes, she asked me to follow her to another room to see the collection. The pieces were so revealing and sexy that I got excited merely seeing them. Well, the wild fantasies and the anticipations I had intensified the excitement. As I started to select a few pieces, she offered that I could even try them. I could not even reply and stood there looking at her. I was too excited, by the mere thought of putting them on while she was around, to say a word. She looked me in the eye with a smile and handed a see-through black bra and a matching black thong to me. Then she left the room until I put them on, which I did. A minute or two later she knocked on the door asking if I was ready. To which I said “yes”. She got in and admired how they looked on me. She approached me and stood behind me while I was facing her mirror. She whispered “Very sexy on you. Look at you!”. She touched my shoulders and I had a strong shiver. She went on to touch the bra and my breasts and kissed my neck. I was fighting to keep my legs standing. A little moan came out of me and that was just like a signal for her. She turned me around and kissed my lips. I responded and our tongues were hugging each other while she was touching my body and gently squeezing my butt. She lay me on the bed and was on top of me kissing me passionately. She moved from my lips to my neck and cleavage. She removed the bra and licked and sucked my breasts. I started to touch her. It was very sensual and highly intense. Soon we both were naked. She licked me all over and I did too. We took some time enjoying each other and exploring and adoring each other’s bodies. It was clear it was not her first girl-girl experience. She eventually guided me to a 69-position until we both had very intense orgasms. We then stayed in bed hugging and kissing gently for 10-15 minutes and got up. We were both happy and agreed we should see each other more often. We still meet.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I felt happy that I finally lived this fantasy. I was more than willing to see her again. I am very happy now.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Hoping or expecting it would lead to something more, Thought it was an important experience to have
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but I didn’t give a ‘no’
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Living a fantasy and knowing for sure that I am bisexual and that it was not just a fantasy.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? It has opened the door for me to explore another side of my sexuality.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? It is good and I would like to able to come out.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Great
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