What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 49
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? Germany
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? number cruncher, office jockey
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? sapiosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? about 50
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 7
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How long ago did this hookup happen? 2011
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a month
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was a lady I had met online through a dating website. I found her fairly attractive, and more importantly, smart.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We were skyping and I was doing a little verbal teasing. She then suggested that we meet the next day at her hotel. She was staying in a city far away and I had to organize a payable flight, which I did. So, the next morning, I landed there.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? She took me to lunch to check me out. Then she told me we would be going back to the hotel, “but not for sleeping”. There, she laid herself down onto the bed in her underwear. I went at her with some intensity, I found her extremely hot. She was a little embarrassed because she was on her period, but I assured her that it did not bother me at all. We put a big towel under, and we were ready to go. We did the usual standard positions, missionary, doggie, cowgirl. She liked to be slapped on the ass, and got really wild when I put my thumb into her ass. For me, it was one of the most intense sexual experiences I ever had. We went at it a few more times over the next two days, walking the city during the day, fucking during the night.
I did not give her oral because of the blood taste. She sucked me off a few times.
What was interesting, I was extremely fat at the time and uncomfortable with it, but it seemed to not bother her.
What was funny: Since we had never heard any sounds from the other rooms, we thought it was all soundproof, and consequently let ourselves go, making loud animal noises. The last night, two people were talking in the next room, and it sounded as if there was no wall at all. We went at it again.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? I don’t know
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I felt great about it. I did not think we would ever meet again. I was a little surprised to find out that she was in my city once and never let me know. I have very fond memories and would love to go at it again with her.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Mentioned it to a few friends. They nodded.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The sex was some of the best I have ever had, and I have had pretty good
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? WORST: Nothing.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I used to like it and still like it.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I would like it to become more normalized
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Great idea
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