by Melisa Hale


Gender: Female
Age: 17
Race/ethnicity: Colombian
Current location: Florida
Highest education received: Not graduated from high-school
Relationship status: Friends with benefits
Religious affiliation: Catholic
How religious are you? A little
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 6
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None

Feelings In FWB

How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 months ago

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Friends with benefits

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? -he is tall, dark hair, defined blue eyes, tan-ish.
-i met him through a mutual friend, we hooked up the day we met.. kept talking a month later and we decided to become fwb and we got to know each other more..we’re still talking btw
-i knew him before we met, i’ve heard about him.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? the first hook up began 2 months ago and it casually happened.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? we made out (this was outside in a trail btw) 
and he fingered me and i gave him head.
now we’re fwb not so much with benefits anymore.
feels amazing, had my first orgasm with him it was mind blowing.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? yes we both orgasm’d, it was amazing.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? condom and the pill

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? it casually happened and now we’re a ‘thing’.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? no, no alcohol/drugs

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? i got his number; we kept talking and it was great then we decided to be fwb’s and the sex is beyond great.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? i don’t kiss and tell but my friends do know that i’m talking to him still.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? yes it was consensual.. we both wanted it.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? no, absolutely not! it’s been so amazing and definitely not regretful.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? the way he made me feel comfortable and not pressured to do anything. i learned that there is no such thing as friends with benefits because someone or both eventually catch feelings.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup or anything else? we haven’t labelled anything, but i can’t say we’re fwb’s anymore.. considering we both caught feelings

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