by Naughty Flirt

Gender: male
Age: 40
Race/ethnicity: Caucasian
Current location: Europe
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
Occupation: consultant
Relationship status: long term
Religious affiliation: Catholic
How religious are you? A little
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexual orientation/sexuality better/best? a big flirt, open for an new adventures
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 20
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? none

Festival Flirt

How long ago did this hookup happen? last year

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? one-night stand

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Did not know her before, it was during a festival in our town, pubs where full and everybody was having a party and drinking a lot. I was with an group of friends, male and female.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? At one point I had to go the toilet and, as flirtatious as I am, I took my time to get there through the crowd. Close to the toilet there was this nice girl also with a group of friends, we looked at each other and there was a instant click. We talked a bit, because it was busy I could easily touch her butt – she reacted and became excited, whispering “don’t you stop” while returning the favor. I gave her a kiss, first small then a bit longer, in a second we fully made out and our hands were all over. After some time I broke loose and I said bye-bye, then I continued my way to the toilet as I originally intended . Actually I only wanted to flirt, that’s my thing (more then hooking up, because I am happy within my relationship).

On my way back to my group, I had to pass here again; and again the click between us was what you could call electric – intense and naughty… We kissed again, talked a bit about our magnetism.. After a while I had to go my group – they where looking for me and there was an other round of drinks. We kept on looking at each other, after a while I saw her, and her group, leaving the pup. I followed them outside, we spoke a bit – kissed and I felt her up. Her group was leaving, she had to follow. But just before she left she gave me here address which was a couple of blocks away from my home. She mentioned she had some friends for a sleepover this night, but was alone the next night.

Normally I would just let it go and be a good partner,but this time I could not stop thinking about her. The next night after a long evening of drinks, I walked home late that night alone. Almost automatically I walked trough her street and stopped for her door, It took all my guts to press the doorbell…after a while the light went on and she opened the door in some clothes she hastily had put on. She had a beautiful just out of bed look… (she went out this night too but came home some time earlier).

She smiled and said: YOU.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? At that point I was still planning to only go in for a coffee, which instantly became a beer.

I sat on her couch, she gave me the beer and straddled me, one second later we started to make out frantically and within a couple of seconds our hands where all over,  some of our clothes followed quickly. After a lot of kissing she gave me a fantastic blow-job, I wanted to go down on her before getting my kick. I want my girls to have fun and enjoy themselves as good as possible  But she said “not here, lets go upstairs to my bedroom”

Upstairs got naked direct, she straddled  me again, I came quickly – she was a bit disappointed… but then my secret kicked in, I kept a raging hard one and we continued to have sex in many positions including loads of oral and naughty sex talk (mainly about the day before). That somebody could continue after an orgasm was new for her, and she was really enjoying this enormously!!

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? Yes at least two and she had many – did not really count 😉

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? Discussed it briefly, we had a good a mutual understanding about safety and luckily she had a family pack of condoms. We used a couple…

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? Overall excitement, can I pull a hookup off with nobody knowing and curious about sex with somebody else then my partner.  I was also drunk and this was the perfect occasion to try.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? Yes: alcohol, quite a lot for me and she also had a lot. But she was already home for some time.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After about 2 hours I had to get home because otherwise my partner would notice. Only then did we exchange names and numbers.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Nobody – this was my fantasy and it actually happened in real life – still enjoying the thought .

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes, absolutely, for the both of us. I mentioned to her I was in a relationship, I don’t want to lie and like to keep things clear.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? Yes and no…NO because it was really not expected and hot,  meeting her, the click in our eyes and of course the fantastic sex. Yes – first time cheating on my partner.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The best thing was the initial meeting, getting there the day after and the fantastic sex – probably the best – we really connected well physically.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Somewhat negative

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