What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 36
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Asia
What country and/or city do you live in? Israel
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (currently pursuing)
What’s your occupation? Software engineer
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (open)
Religious affiliation: Jewish
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 4
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

FFM With My Wife And A Close Friend

How long ago did this hookup happen? 1 year

What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (monogamous)

How would you best classify this hookup? Group sex

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? My wife – pretty short, thin, huge natural breasts, light skin. Together since we were 21.
My friend – very tall, a little bug. Huge natural breasts as well. Been flirting for a few months.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? My wife (let’s call her Gina) and I had discussed an ffm for a long time. Always half kidding. With my friend (let’s call her Nina) after a lot of flirting it became an actual possibility as she had just divorced. We met a couple times and scheduled the actual date to when the kids were at my parents and we had the place to ourselves. We also exchanged fantasies on how this could happen.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? There we were, after a nice mussels dish, having our non-dairy homemade Ice cream. It was a good idea to keep dinner light as it left us with energy and also some hunger towards the continued events of the evening. We sat on the sofa. At first I was in the center with the women at my sides but soon enough my wife said something about being a lefty so she can’t make a move from the right and moved to the other side so was in the middle. It felt a bit like we were the predators and Nina was the prey, though it could’ve been the other way around. We ate and talked, all the while I was using my left hand to caress Nina’s thigh. First on the outside than a little bit on the inside as well. Gina and Nina were talking about their freckles and beauty marks. I wasn’t sure where it was leading until I realized Gina was making her move. She said she had a beauty mark on her back and asked Nina to help her unzip the back of her dress. As my wife’s dress was sliding down her neck and upper back, I started to get really excited. “See?” Gina said with a smile before checking one final time that we’re ready to play and leaning in for the kiss. I was surprised and totally turned on by how forward she was. Nina was kissing her back. The kisses started soft but got very intense very quickly. I was turned on and excited like crazy from seeing my sexy wife and hot friend going at it like that. Nina started fondling Gina’s tits through her bra and quickly enough reached back to remove it. She put a tit in her mouth and with her other hand she started rubbing my already seriously hard cock through the fabric of my pants. I couldn’t speak had I wanted to. Soon they were both topless and playing with each other’s tits. I slid Nina’s skirt up and got my first look at her clean shaven pussy, barely hidden by see through lingerie. I put my hand on her pussy and felt how soaked it already was. It was amazing. I couldn’t believe it was happening. This porn movie scene was happening in my living room with my wife. Sliding her underwear to the side I exposed her. Her pelvis jumped to the touch of my hand on her wet pussy lips. We shifted positions a bit. Nina now laid back on Gina’s body accessing her tits with her mouth and pussy with her hands. Gina was caressing and sucking Nina’s tits, flicking her nipples while I started licking my way from her stomach via her thighs to her waiting pussy. I had been fantasizing about eating her for so long. Gina doesn’t really like it and I love it, so I was really anxious to do it to Nina. I looked them both in the eye as I took her clit in my mouth. They both moaned. Nina was now intensely flicking Gina’s nipple while fingering her pussy and alternating applying pressure to her clit. Gina soon came for the first time tonight. I kept licking Nina’s clit, occasionally dipping down to her pussy. I added a finger, then two, and started fingering her while still flicking her clit with my tongue. They were kissing each other passionately and Gina came a second time. I felt I had to change position. I got up and they both told me to lose my pants and underwear (Nina said it first, but when it took me a while, Gina reminded me that “the lady asked you to take your pants off”. It would have been rude to decline). As soon as I did I stood up in front of them as they both sat on the sofa and they started licking me in stereo. They smiled and looked at each other, then at me. It was one of the sexiest moments of my life. They took turns, then went at it together. I was in heaven. Then Gina said, “I call dibs”. Nina sat up, Gina climbed on top of her, facing her as I entered her from behind standing up. Gina came again as I was fucking her pussy and Nina was feeling her up. I said I was about to cum to which Gina replied, “No, you cum on her tits” assertively. As I heard it all I could think of was what an amazing wife I have. She got off and I started jerking but as I felt my load climbing from my balls I said “suck it”. Nina quickly took my cock in her mouth and swallowed my entire load only dropping a couple of small drops on her tits and rubbing them around. Oh my God. We all paused to take a breath and drink some water. Then we agreed to continue upstairs.

We went upstairs. We took with us some condoms and a bottle of massage oil along with the wine and water. When we got upstairs we immediately started making out again. It felt really exciting, like we’re just getting started. Gina and Nina kissed a lot and touched. Nina was on all fours on the bed leaning to kiss Gina and suck her nipples while I positioned myself behind her. I touched her pussy from behind. I knew it excited her and her moan excited me immensely. I licked her pussy a bit from behind, just a little as I had problems finding my place in the bed. After a short while I wanted to taste more of her. We changed positions a couple of times until we found one where I can eat her properly. I really loved her taste! I started licking her clit again. She moaned. Gina sat above us as Nina was now fingering her. I licked Nina, without touching, I felt myself growing again. I think Gina came again. She wanted me to fuck Nina. I wanted to fuck Nina. I’m pretty sure Nina wanted me to fuck Nina too. At this point it’s worth mentioning it has been twenty years since I last used condoms. As I struggled to put one on I felt myself fading. Nina took the time to try and get me back on track. I laid on my back as she alternated between putting me in her mouth, stroking me and rubbing my tip on her nipples. It felt great! It was like the ultimate teasing but I wasn’t up for it yet so I decided to rest a while. We all sat back on the bed. I laid down as Gina and Nina set next to me. We talked a bit and after a while they started kissing again. As they were making out I started getting excited again. Nina noticed and started rubbing me just a bit with her leg. Teasing. I wanted in on the action but was so turned on by watching I didn’t want to interfere. Gina was rubbing massage oil all over Nina. Her glistening tits looked amazing and it looked like she was heading for the sky. Little by little I moved closer to them until I had Nina in my lap. I kissed her deeply. Long kisses, with our tongues meeting, playing. I sucked on her tongue and it felt amazing. Deep and passionate. Gina was rubbing her clit and fingering her pussy while my hands were rubbing her beautiful oiled tits and nipples. This went on for a while. Every time I looked up I saw my amazing wife fingering another women. I felt like we were devouring her together and it was incredible. Then we kissed again. Hard core kisses. Eventually, Nina and Gina both wanted me to finally fuck Nina. This time I was ready. Nina climbed on top of me. Straddling me and riding as if intoxicated. I was at awe watching her tits bounce and the look of focus on her face. Gina was rubbing her back with massage oil and I started to apply pressure on her clit from the outside. She moaned. Hard. And again. Harder. Her moans were sincere, deep, she was on a journey to somewhere else and the feeling that my wife and I were bringing her there together was thrilling. She stopped and I knew what she wanted before she said it. “Fuck me from behind”. I positioned myself behind her and started teasing her pussy lips with the tip of my cock. Up and down. Up and down. I won’t forget her moans as I teased her and then pushed it in in one move. Now I was really fucking her.
I was lost in the moment. I can’t even remember what Gina was doing. I think she was watching us. I felt Nina moaning as much as I heard her. I knew she was getting there and then she came hard. I don’t know if it was once or twice but I know it was intense. We both fell down on the bed and as I looked at Gina I saw she was smiling. She was satisfied by what she experienced and watched. She said she was heading down to take a shower but we decided we still wanted more. We drank a lot of water (apparently you need a lot of water for a threesome) and laid down to rest a bit. We talked and I made sure Nina understood I wasn’t done yet. It was a bit roomier just the two of us now on the bed. I made sure she was comfortable. Head on a pillow, and went down on her again. I couldn’t get enough of her taste and also realized she had not orgasmed from me eating her before. I couldn’t let it stay that way. I can still taste her on my lips now. It’s not a taste you can describe, but it was great. I took my time. Up and down. Sucking on her clit. Lapping my tongue across her lips. Then going back to her clit, licking, playing with it with my tongue and lips. She started moaning again and took my hand leading it to her entrance. I put two fingers in her and started playing around. Now focusing my tongue on her clit and my other hand applying some pressure on it from the outside. I felt her respond to my hands. It took a while. Licking and playing inside of her but she came again. She was loud, and I was excited. I fucked her doggy style again. I knew I wouldn’t cum like that but I felt she loved it. I kept at it until she came again. How I enjoyed watching her. Then we both collapsed. She was tired. I didn’t even have the energy to cum again myself but I knew both ladies were satisfied. I was happy.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We talked about it a lot. My relationship with my wife only got stronger with this experience. I’m still very close with my friend. Sometimes with benefits.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms, IUD (Intrauterine device), Discussed STI testing history

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection

How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Only my closest friends. And partners, of course.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Having this shared experience with my wife

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? That it ended, there was so much more we could’ve experienced

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes, it opened my mind to the option of extramarital sex (with my wife’s consent).

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I don’t consider it causal because I was initimate with both partners. I don’t think causal sex is for me.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Cool place to share experiences

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