Current location: Los Angeles
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
Occupation: Bank Teller
Relationship status: Single
Religious affiliation: Catholic
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 3
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
How long ago did this hookup happen? 6 months ago
How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? FWB
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I met Jeff(not real name) through his sister who was my assigned roommate my first & only year at college. She & I became close very quick & would always hang out together. A month into school we were hanging out in our dorm & the door knocked & she went for it & came back with who I thought a very good looking guy. He had gorgeous hazel eyes, dark curly skater hair, & was maybe a good 4 inches taller than me. (I’m 5’4) She asked if he could hang out with us for a bit while his roommate came to pick him up because they shared a car. Of course I said no problem, I wanted to get to know him. He introduced himself with a smile that immediately made me weak in the knees. While he was there I found out that he’s in his 3rd year of college, 3 years older than me, & we had some stuff in common. Throughout the year I got to know him better & my attraction to him grew. I later found out however that his roommate was a girl who he was casually on-and-off again with. That had made me back off from a bit for the rest of the year.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Through my one year there, I would notice Jeff would flirt with me but I thought nothing of it because he probably saw me as his sisters roommate. When I didn’t return to school this year, I still kept in touch with his sister & would always FaceTime with her. I started working so it was difficult to talk to each other so we finally settled on me going to visit her on my day off. When I got there, after I parked & was walking to her dorm, I see Jeff walking. I go up to him & he immediately pulls me into a hug & lightly carries me. We were catching up & I asked if he knew if his sister was in class. He said yeah, & that it was her busy day so shed be off in a couple hours. Not knowing what to do til then, I asked if I can hang out with him while she gets out. He smiled his sexy smile & said sure, but he didn’t want to stay on campus because he was done for the day. I said I can take him wherever he wants to, & he said to his house, he was going to be alone because his roommate went to see her family. On the way there, he explained to me that things between him & his roommate were coming to an end, as it was his last year if school so he’d move out soon & didn’t want to put a strain on their friendship. He also kept saying how much he missed seeing me around campus, how much of a better roommate I was than his sister’s current ones. When we got to his house, he changed to sweats & a t-shirt & he looked so good in it. He remembered that we both liked playing Halo so he turned it on & we started playing for awhile. After an hr he said we should make things interesting, loser would have to confess a secret to the other. I ended up winning so he had to say his secret. He straight up told me that he always loved looking at my ass (I have a pretty great ass if I do say so myself) when he’d see me walking around campus & sometimes would follow me without telling me hi or anything so he can admire it. I blushed, then said why he never did anything about it. He then stood me up & kissed me, grabbing my ass while doing so. I was shocked at first but went along with is because I have always thought about hooking up with him & it was finally happening.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? My body was on fire from him running his hands all over me while we were making out. He took off my shirt & jeans while I took off his shirts so I can feel his abs which were so incredible I thought how was he not a model?! He pushed me against the wall, pressing his hard on on my waist through his sweats. he picked me up & carried me to his room. He threw me on the bed & told me how long he’s been wanting me. I took his dick out & started giving him a bj. after about 5 minutes he stopped me then laid me down, took off my thong & bra made his way down & ate me out. By far the best! After a while, I was begging him to fuck me like crazy & he happily obliged. We went at it for over an hr, changing positions & shit. My favorite was when I was on top, because I can tell from the looks of his face & moans that he loved how I rode him & that he can easily grab & slap my ass.
Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? Yes, we both did. I came twice & he came once.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? We used a condom, but didn’t talk about STD’s or anything.
What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I had always been attracted to him, he said he’s been attracted to me & we were horny lol.
Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? Nope.
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After, we talked about how great & right it felt but that there was going to be some complications if anyone ever found out. His sister is very protective over him & doesn’t like when he dates. So we just settled on when I come to visit her, I’d visit him as well (wink wink). & he would say to his roommate he was going to see his family some weekends & come see me.
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I told my sister & a friend I made there at college who knew him. They both said they knew it was going to happen haha!
Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes, for both.
Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No, not at all.
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The best thing was that I was finally able to hook up with Jeff & it became a regular thing.
The worst is that we have to kept a secret from everyone, especially his sister.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup or anything else? The whole thing went from friends with benefits to us actually dating, but lowkey. He broke things off with his roommate & is about to move out & graduate from school. He wants to tell his family & everyone about us, but I’m nervous about how his sister is going to react.