What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 27
What’s your race/ethnicity? Hispanic / Latino/a
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 40ish
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1
How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 years ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? An old girlfriend from high school. A smidge taller than me, beautiful eyes and smile, and all the right curves. We dated off and on in high school and we did everything but sex because she “wasn’t ready.” She’s younger than me. We went off to college, I left town for my career while she stayed in our hometown. We always kept in touch and we’re always flirty with one another. We talked all the time about finally going all the way with one another. But it stayed talk. One day I was going to go to her college but got sick. Then she had a boyfriend. After college I had her over when I was in town but she chickened out when she got there because she never did it with anyone outside a relationship. We continued to flirt and sext when we were single and finally the next time I was in town a year after that last attempt, the third time proceeded to be the charm.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I was staying at a home my family owns and she came over after work. We had flirted and sexted and knew the purpose of this was for sex, so after pleasantries it got hot and heavy very quick. This time it was going to happen.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We did all the stuff we had done as horny high schoolers. She has a way with her voice and her mannerisms that come across so innocent, but so seductive and it turns me on so much. After I got her off by fingering her, I checked with her to make sure it was ok for us to go all the way. I was going to be the first to have sex with her that she wasn’t dating, so she nervously told me yes. I put it in slowly, then slowly worked things up faster. She was never very loud just with fingering or oral but when we were fucking she was very vocal and I loved it. I started on top, then she went on top, then I went Doggy, then got her back missionary to finish up. We both got very loud and vocal as we got close and we finished together. It was amazing! After cooling down a bit, we did it again and again and we both came together.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We chatted some more then she left. We both were very glad this happened. I had hoped we could do it again either there or inviting her out to where I lived…but before that could happen she met a guy who is now her husband.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms, Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant, Discussed STI testing history
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, Thought it was an important experience to have
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? That we finally did it because we both regretted not being each other’s first partner
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? That it will likely be the only time.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No, because I’ve had casual sex for years.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Everyone should do what they want to do and with whoever they want. Sex is a fun and beautiful thing if you do it right. Don’t knock it until you try it (but don’t be silly, cover your willy!)
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It provides a lot of fun reading!
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