What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 27
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? United States
Highest education received: Not graduated from high-school
What’s your occupation? Unemployed
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Non religious
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 48
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
First BBC Group Bang
How long ago did this hookup happen? Two months
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? Group sex
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? The man it started with is a neighbor in my apartment complex. A tall, black man. He had a few tattoos and piercings. Medium black/blue dyed hair.
Never hooked up, but we know each other pretty well.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I went to his apartment. He knows I am into computers, and needed some help with his. HIs screen wouldn’t come on. As I’m checking out the connections, he notices an LGBTQ patch on my jacket. Asks me how long I’ve been a supporter. Told him a long time and that I’m bi. We got to talking about that. So, it was all on a sudden impulse.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I just gave him three blowjobs, as he kept wanting more.
He mentioned his friends afterwards, and how they did group sex on one person. I told him that is extremely hot to me.
Two weeks later, he calls me. Tells me his friends are over and asked if I wanted to come over. The way it sounded, they wanted me to do the same.
So, after work, I went home. Showered, and went upstairs to his apartment.
After introducing ourselves to each other, we eased in. It started out as one at a time sitting in a chair as I sucked off each one. But, they got hornier, and one got on his knees behind me. I felt his dick press against my ass, and instinctively, I undid my.pants, and pulled them down. They took turns spit-roasting me. We went for about 4 hours.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I felt great the next day. And, I was really hoping to see them all again.
Every now and then, one or two will come over. I take care of them, and off they go.
I’m really happy with the arrangement.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Boredom
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I only told my sister, who I got the idea from. Once, I checked to see if she was home, and saw her having sex with a group of black guys.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The feeling, of knowing I’m pleasing a group of men.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? The start.
I was a bit nervous. First time ever with BBC and group.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? I just loved how easy going and gentle they were.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Casual sex is perfectly fine. Sleep with whoever. Opposite sex. Same sex.
Just enjoy life.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Definitely something we need
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