What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 38
What’s your race/ethnicity? Asian
What continent do you live on? Asia
What country and/or city do you live in? Prefer not to mention
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Resercher
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Prefer not to mention
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? I guess, Nymph
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 40+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
My First Cheat When My Hubby Was Away
How long ago did this hookup happen? 13 years
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a week
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Lets call him ‘Z’. He was Potato farm laborer. Dirty, skinny, smelly and black but very innocent looking and cute. He was almost my age or may be younger than me. I did not know much about him before having sex with him. He was the quite and shy kind at that time. I met him at my husband’s friends potato farm house in New Zealand. For some very strange reason I developed a very strong and immense, forcefully magnetic attraction towards him. Though I am married to a very sauve, articulate, highly educated well mannered person and we lover each other very much, I always had this immense sexuall attraction towards the ‘Baddies’, the jerks, the dirty, unhygienic kinda guys.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? It happened on the farmhouse. It was our 4th day in the farm. As mentioned above my (God knows the reason) immense sexual attraction led me into it. I had never cheated on my husband. Fantacised? Yes but never thought of actually doing it. Before the sex happened I had flashed my breasts twice or thrice to Z in the last 2 days, although making it appear accidentally. I also caught him masterbating in the back. I made the plan for this day as my husband and I were supposed to go to the city which was approx 3 hours drive. We had some work with planning our return. (those days e tickets werent available). So I knew if I did not go with him and rather Z’s uncle and cousin I would get a good 8-10 hour s of privacy. Honestly speaking I did not even know what was I going to do because my sex life with hubby was good. Infact we were fucking till late everynight and sometimes also in afternoon while in the farmhouse. So as per the plan I told my husband that I had a severe headache and that I needed some rest. I knew he would still go as he had no option. I suggested he take Z’s uncle and cousin along as he wasnt much acquainted with the country. He agreed and they left.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? As soon as they left I checked Z was working in the nearby field and did take note that everyone has left except me. I came in the house and was wonderig what do i do now? The very thought of me being alone with him was making me wet. After around 30 mins or so i called him in, even now wondering, what next? he came in. Dirty, sweating, half naked (Bare chest) and wearing old dirty shorts. He couldnt make eye contact with me. Forget speaking. I just let things happen and went with the flow.
I asked him to wait there and went to the bath. Got striped except for removing the panties. Wrapped myself in a towel and called for him. As he approched the bath, I told him I had some difficluty with the shower and my hand wouldnt reach. so called him in. He came in very hesitantly and started to look towards the shower wondering what can he do anyways. As he turned around, I dropped my towel. I was standing naked with only my panties on in from of him. I cant explain the adrenaline rush at that time I was experiencing. I wanted to see his expressions. He was completely in an awe but shying away, afraid. It was obvious because here he had his master’s friend’s wife stand naked in from of him.
I pulled his chin lifting his face up and told him, “if you liked it watch it. Its not your fault. I am showing it to you. Do you like it?” He looked in my eyes for a secong and then again dropped his face but nodded a Yes. “So watch it. Dont fear.” I slowly jumped so that my boobs would shake and he could enjoy. I could see the lust, the happiness of experiencing a miracle, of an unexpected encounter like this and the blood flow in his face. I took his hands and directed them to stroke my boobs. Ohhhhh!!!!! I cant explain what it was like first time. I then knew what I was going to do. I wanted sex. Even though it meant cheating on my loving husband.
I noticed the bulge in his shorts. I started touching the swollen part continuously looking into his eyes and enjoying the constant change in his expressions from shock to happiness to surpeise to confusion and all of this with the innocense involved. Also his body was dirty and smelly. I knelt don and removed his short to his utter astonishment. And to my astonishment I had a 7 inch long, smelly, Black strong penis with a good girth dangling in my face. But I loved the scent of his cock. I loved the dirty part. My husband’s cock was only 5 and a half inches. It was satisfying, no doubt. But ‘Z’s was a treat. It was a ‘tool’, a ‘meat’.
So after removing his shorts I threw them out of the bath to avoid it from getting wet in case we bath together. For the first time other than my husband I was seeing another man naked standing in front of me. I started smelling his armpits, his cock head. I also smelled his ass hole. I liked his smell from every inch of his naked body. I started licking his chest like I was hungry, starving for 2 days. I then dropped to my knees and started strocking his cock to bring it to full erection. Once erect I started sucking his cock, also equally hungrily and stroked his huge and hairy balls. He had already started moaning by now. The sucking continued for around half an hour and my knees started aching. So I grabbed him by his cock and took him to the living room, on the floor. As he lied down, I started to suck his cock again and that too very desperately. But he wasnt cuming. Good control, I said to myself. Slowly he was also gaining some confidence and grabbed my hair and strocked it up and down as he wanted to experience. I liked it. After anothe session of 10-15 mins I just took my face off to get some air, I saw he was looking at me with some anticipation. He just gave a glance towards my butt and looked at me again. I understood. He wanted to see my completely naked. I went around sitting opposite himand spread my legs asking him, ” You want to see my pussy? You want to see what I got inside there?” He nodded a yes again. I told him, “Go ahead. Remove my panties. And I stood up. He brought his hands to my panties and looked to me. I encouraged him with a smile and blink in my eyes. I slowly removed my panties amd getting my pussy exposed to the first man ton earth who was not my husband. I could see the rush of blood in his eyes and feel the same in my head and pussy. I had trimmed my pussy 2 days ago. He observed my pussy like a baby observes a new toy. He spread my pussy lips, touched it, smelled it, licked it. I asked, ” Did you like it?” He could not even answer. So I moved a little back so he gets a complete view of my naked body.
By the way he was a virgin. Inexperienced. So I had to take the lead here also. I directed his finger to stroke my clit but I was so damn arouned, I thought just fuck it. I pushed him on the ground sat with his cock in my pussy and started jumping vigourously. He and I both started moaning and groaning. After a few minutes suprisingly he took the lead. He was gaining confidence. He picked me by my hips and moved aside. The he grbbed my shoulders and pushed on the ground. He was getting the game now. He spread my legs without seeking my approval, gave a lusty look at my pussy and inserted his cock and started strocking gently first and then gaining momentum. We took the missionary position and had crazy sex like maniacs. I loved being riden by a dirty and a smelly man like his. His sweat and smell was all over my body. I loved the experience of a sex starved poor person using me like ‘His’ piece of flesh without any respect for me like I was his sex slave. I was withering and screaming but ‘No Mercy’. He pounded me for several minutes in the same position and then very hurriedly removed his cock and grabbed by his right hand and with left hand pressing my boobs so hard, I thought it would burst. Shagging of vigourously he finally shot a hard healthy cum on my face and continued shooting his cum on my face and breasts.
We lay there for a few minutes without a word. Then he got up, I got up. He was searching for his shorts. I searched them for him and gave him with a very very satisfying smile licking his cum dripping from the side of my lips. He did not even wear his short and started moving out. I followed him. He deliberately went out naked in the field and looked here n there. Finally he waved his shorts in the sir to somebody far away shouting ‘AHOY”.. And there were a few replies from different direction. I asked what was it? He explained whenever any laborer gets to fuck any landlady or master’s wife , anybody like me they communicated like this to each other and then wore the shorts in the open as a proof that he ‘Did get a fuck?’ Also, they were excited because it was his first time. I was shit scared that my husband would know. But he assured nobody will ever know. In fact, he told me that my husbands friend’s wife (His master’s wife) has had sex with all the laborers including Gangbanged but the farmowner still doesnt know and will never know. Only the wives know each others secret and share them discretely. So I now have a friend with whom I can share this. I had the most satisfying bath remembering the incident and wanting more.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I was exhilarated after this hook up. I felt a deep sense of satisfaction for i got the kind of sex I was looking for. There were many incidents that happened later which i will share in other stories.
My husband is a kind loving man. I cheated on him. I don’t know why. But I am not guilty. I got to experience something that was I guess a part of me and should have been explored.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Hoping or expecting it would lead to something more, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My husband’s friends wife. Later we became very close and sex secret sharing friends
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Daring to cheat, the dirtiness I was always inclined to and fantacised from teenage.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? nothing
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes. I am more confident about myself. I feel complete. it has helped me being more happy and cheerful family member
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? No, I would like share other hook ups
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I would want the society to see the positivity of casual sex. Not limiting to the married partner only. Casual sex according to me can be a stress-buster
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Very good platform for allwing people to share their experiences
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