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What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 41
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? The Netherlands
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Journalist
What’s your current relationship status? Dating casually
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 80+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

First Cock Did Not Disappoint

How long ago did this hookup happen? A few months ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? This was my first sexual encounter with a guy after breaking up with my boyfriend of 10 years half a year before. I had been afraid of being intimate with a new person for a while but had come to a point where I was ready. This guy was a match from a dating app. We had had a great chat online and decided to meet. The moment I entered the bar, I knew we were going to have sex. He is about the same height as me, great smile, dark hair, and a slight beard. He was appreciative of my outfit and we had a great conservation going, where it was clear that we genuinely liked each other. Right from the beginning, he was physical: slightly touching my arm and legs.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? He announced which beer was to be his last. We then got to a decisive moment. We stared into each other’s eyes and he asked if he may kiss me. We kissed in the bar and it confirmed the attraction that was there. He was a great kisser. We then left the bar and I invited him back to my place, which was nearby. We then started making out on the couch.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I was completely excited about the kissing. It got me really really wet. We first dry humped for a bit and I could tell he was rock hard and big. He rubbed his cock against me and I just wanted to swallow it whole. It felt amazing when he stroked my tits and I requested him to suck them. We took off our clothes, constantly kissing and touching each other’s bodies.

Seeing his cock, I couldn’t believe my luck. It was really thick, and the right length. Not having had any dick for a long time, I just wanted him to fill me up with it. At this time, I was completely dripping with wetness, which he commented on, almost sighing how great that was. He wanted to finger me first, but because his technique was quite bad and because I really wanted him inside me, I begged him to fuck me first. We did it missionary style on the couch. The feeling was amazing! He then asked me to sit on his dick and ride him. We did that for a while and he then said he wanted to fuck me on my bed.

We moved to the bedroom and he asked how I wanted to be fucked. I asked him to take me from behind. I wanted to feel him as deep as possible. He spanked me a bit whilst doing it and put a finger in my ass, grunting approvingly as I let him. I quite like dirty talk and it made me even hornier as he kept saying how deep his dick was inside of me. It made me come twice and I couldn’t get enough.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After he had come, we talked for a bit and then he said he was going home. I asked him if we’d see each other again, and he said maybe. The next day I was quite insecure about whether he’d contact me. I decided to do so myself, telling him I had a great time. He felt the same way. We exchanged sexts for a while and had another hook-up a few weeks later. That was a total disappointment. I guess the first encounter had been so great because I was excited about having dick again. In-between the first and second hook-up with him, I slept with several other guys so the excitement was gone. After the disappointing second time, I decided I wasn’t going to keep him as a fuck buddy.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms, Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s)

How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I had already told my friends during the date at the bar that things were going smoothly. After he had left, I told my close friends via chat that cock is the best and I shared all the details. They were all very happy for me.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Remembering how good it feels to have a huge cock inside of you. I had come out of a long relationship with a partner with a much smaller dick and although he very much satisfied me sexually, it was great to have a different dick – and one of the best in town.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? The insecurity after, if he was going to continue contact or just ghost me.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I have always been a great fan of casual sex, even though I am monogamous in relationships. This was the start of a new slutty phase, and I am excited about that! It’s great to experience different modes of being sexual in your lifetime.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? It’s ridiculous that’s 2018 and women are still not considered autonomous sexual beings. I encourage everyone to explore their sexuality and to explore different forms of experiencing that sexuality.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I love reading the stories, as very often they make me horny and lead to masturbation. I hope to return the favor.

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