What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 18
What’s your race/ethnicity? Southeast Asian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Montreal
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Student
What’s your current relationship status? Dating casually
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 14
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

First Couchsurfing Experience

How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 weeks ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a week

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? While I was travelling to Singapore alone, I’d been searching for places to stay on Couchsurfing. I came across this French guy and asked him if he could host me at his place, but in the end, it didn’t work up. He still asked me if we could meet maybe meet up a few days before we did meet up.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? The day of the hookup, he texted me, asking me how I was and how my trip was. We were talking about the places we were staying at in the city and I’d assumed it was an invitation for a hookup, which wasn’t (oops), but it did turn the conversation around and lead to him inviting me to his place!

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? On his bed, after a couple of drinks, I undid my shirt a bit to show my tattoos on the sides of my rib cage when he started undressing me and kissing me all over. We were fooling around and he started dirty talking, which I’m not used to, but definitely turns me on. He undressed me completely before fingering me and then got undressed which I followed by giving him an amazing blowjob, deepthroating him at every chance I had. He put on a condom and pushed me onto the bed, proceeding to fuck me in missionary.

He kept dirty talking to me while he manhandled me to put me on all fours, and fucked me from behind. He pulled my hair and choked me a bit too. After a bit of time, I felt him playing with my butthole and didn’t really pay attention to him. I think he took it as an invitation to go further and just pushed his finger all the way in, lubing it from time to time with our drinks. That really excited me. He asked me if I wanted to try to have anal sex, which I wasn’t really sure about, since it would be the first time, but in the end, I accepted out of curiosity. I think he thoroughly enjoyed it, especially when he came. After that, we watched a movie, cuddled a bit and had sex again. I took an Uber home shortly after that. He was an amazing lover, with the perfect amount of roughness.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I felt wonderful after having great sex. I didn’t have any expectations since the day after I had to leave the country, but he texted me to add me on Facebook. I do have hopes that we’ll cross paths during our international trips and have another adventure!

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it, It was easy / convenient

How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My friends, a few of them were outraged that I’d tried anal for the first time with a stranger but were definitely not surprised by it.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The experimentation and the rough part of it all.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Mmmh maybe the part I had to hold back from making too much noise, as I’m usually loud during sex.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No, but it has allowed me to try anal sex, which I’ll continue to explore.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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