What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 24
What’s your race/ethnicity? Southeast Asian
What continent do you live on? Asia
What country and/or city do you live in? Singapore
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Freelance Modelling
What’s your current relationship status? Dating casually
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Exploring options
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 4
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None
How long ago did this hookup happen? New Year’s Day 2018
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? Paid sex
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I’ve always been bicurious so I responded to an ad on Craigslist about a woman in her late 20s who was seeking a bicurious/straight girl to explore an FF session. We decided to meet up on new year’s eve at a cafe.
So she was a local Chinese like myself, 29 years old with a fit body, long hair, nice figure and her partner, an Australian lady in her mid-40s, curvy. We discussed things and what we were going to do on the day. I was shy, new to this.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? It began on new years day in the morning itself at their hotel room. They brought me for breakfast and we proceeded right after to their room. Could definitely tell they had sex that morning from the scent in the room. Let’s go with LC for the younger partner and AL for the Aussie.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? LC brought me to the king bed and told me to sit down while she removed her clothing one by one. She was definitely a hottie, with a model-like figure. Right after that she came onto me and sat on my lap and started kissing me. She ripped off my shirt, started groping my boobs before going down, removing my shorts and panties altogether. Next, she pushed me further on the bed, laying on the back she started sucking on my pussy (the feeling was amazing).
AL came right after that wearing a strapon and without hesitation, she asked me to go on all fours and she pushed the strap into my pussy and started fucking me while LC was lying underneath kissing me.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Somewhat
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I stayed on for the day. They both took turns fucking me till evening before we went for dinner and left.
Woke up the next day feeling different. It was my first time with another female, vagina still feeling pain to the touch. I’d do it again, someday.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None
What were your motives for this hookup? Learning new things, experimenting, Making new friends, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? A little bit
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but I didn’t give a ‘no’
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but didn’t give a ‘no’
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Didn’t share with anyone. It was a discreet session.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? A little bit
Why do you regret this hookup? If my boyfriend found out, what will happen? I wasn’t thinking straight, my mind took over just for that one experience.
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The idea of another girl going down on me was amazing, her tongue was experienced in many ways. Her kisses were soft, gentle. The dildo on the strap was hard, painful and not something I will want to be fucked with again.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I didn’t know LC was going to bring her partner. Her partner only fucked me with her strapon most of the time, but it was long, painful and she tried going anal on me but I pushed back.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I believe people have the right to choose on casual sex. It depends on the agreement whether or not they want to have sex with the other party. They should have agreed on the terms wholly before proceeding.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? A little positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? I would love to have another go with LC without her partner present. I believe we are able to have a better session.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? None at the moment
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Ok
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