What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 22
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
How long ago did this hookup happen? A week ago
How would you best classify this hookup? Group sex
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? One is a male friend I’ve known for a couple of years (we were in somewhat of an open relationship until he moved away) + a married couple, woman and man, who I’d never met but he had hooked up with previously. I’ll refer to him as F, the woman as W, and the man as M.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? It happened at my friend’s house and was planned by mostly him since he knows them.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We started in the living room just talking, and then F and W started making out. M and I were on opposite sides of the couch, and I stayed where I was to observe F and W. F then broke their kiss to kiss me while she unzipped his shorts. We shared his cock briefly, and then M came over to me, kissed me hard how I like, and laid me down and got on top of me. After a few minutes of kissing, he took off my dress (I conveniently wasn’t wearing anything underneath) and started to finger and eat me out. At some point, while this was happening, F went down on W (I was a teeny bit jealous because he gives amazing head but glad she got to experience it). After a few more minutes of this, F suggested we relocate to the bedroom. I stopped to use the restroom and then came in to find (I think) F hooking up with W while M kissed her. I’m a little fuzzy on the details because this was such an overload for my senses. I do remember at one point they all had hands on me, just feeling my body, and it was wonderful. I felt included and that helped quell my anxiety. We all shared each other for some time; W went down on me and M played with her ass and felt my legs while F kissed me and played with my nipples. And other variations of that. F and W then fucked in a few different positions: doggy, her on top, reverse cowgirl. M fucked me missionary style at the same time. They then switched and F fucked me from behind (my favorite) while I watched M and W fuck.
Then something wonderful happened – W and I started to kiss and hook up. She was so soft and so were her lips; it took me by surprise because I’m used to the roughness of guys. I think it was right about this time that we broke the bed. We all had a moment of “oh shit” and then laughed about it, and her and I continued to hook up. She was on top first, sort of sitting on me while I was lying down – our legs intertwined. We started really going at it, grinding our pussies against one another. It was fucking hot. It sounds selfish, but she was all I wanted in that moment. I didn’t pay much attention to what F and M were doing; I think they were standing by the bed watching us. I didn’t really care about them. I was focused on W’s pierced pussy riding me. F came at some point in the middle of this; he laid down next to me and said “fuck baby, I’m gonna cum,” and W sucked him and took most of his cum. She left a little for me, and I slowly sucked his cock to get the rest of it until he began to plead with me to stop.
W and I started grinding again and I decided I wanted to take control, so we switched positions. I got more on top and choked her and sucked on her neck and she moaned like crazy; it turned me on so much and made me grind harder against her. I think my first orgasm happened shortly after that. I choked her and told her I was coming. I’ve always wanted to grind and slide against a wet pussy and be dominant with a woman. We did this for a while, only stopping to alternate who was on top and to get out my vibrator. It’s small so it was a little less than ideal, but it has strong vibrations so we made it work. We both laid down and continued to grind with the vibrator between our clits. I don’t remember when I had my second orgasm, but it was soon – it all felt so incredibly good. The vibrations I love and the feeling of her wet pussy against mine sent me over the edge. A few minutes later, I shifted to be more on top of her and had my third orgasm. M was standing close to us and I leaned into him a little, saying “fuck” after I came. I could’ve continued to have orgasms, but W hadn’t yet come and I wanted her to, so I laid down and let her be more in control. She rode me for a bit, and I touched her breasts and held her hips while she rocked and slid back and forth on my pussy. Although I didn’t have another orgasm, I really enjoyed the feeling of us together. She looked so good on top of me and was obviously into it. It ended when she had a (long) orgasm and then M fucked her for a few minutes. We all laid next to each other on the broken bed, enjoying the endorphins.
W and M both told me a few times how beautiful/gorgeous I was while we each hooked up which made me feel good. It’s nice to get compliments from new people you’re having casual sex with.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? The couple left after her and I made out for another few minutes 🙂 Then F and I watched some tv and shared a pint of ice cream before going to bed. The day after, I still felt a little high from the experience. I would like to hook up with W again but don’t know that I will because we live very far apart.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms, Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting
How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I told my closest friend and she laughed and told me I’m wild. I think she was a little envious because she’s into women as well.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? I got to have a foursome with someone I trust and am really close to. And I got to hook up with a woman for the first time. I kept thinking, “no way is this real, there’s no way I’m having this experience right now!”
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? M wasn’t that great at pleasuring me outside of choking and kissing; he was rough in a not-good way. I was also incredibly anxious in the time leading up to the experience, so I didn’t initiate anything at the beginning.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I’m still processing it, so I’m not sure yet.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I think casual sex is important and natural for humans. I wish society was more receptive to the idea of it and didn’t place a stigma around casual sex, group sex, orientation, preferences, etc.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Love it 🙂
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