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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 46
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? United States
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Sales
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (open)
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 15
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None

First Gangbang

How long ago did this hookup happen? 3 months

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? Group sex

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Met her through a lifestyle dating site. We met for drinks, she was recently separated and frankly embracing her sexual desires and fantasies. We hung out and ended that first evening at my place and fucked several times that first night. She left, we hooked up several times afterward. I had already attended swingers parties as a single and she was curious. I invited her to a hotel take over the event. Shes 42, about 5’4″, 180 pounds, huge FF tits.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I related my experiences at other parties to her. She wanted to be gangbanged. We went to the meet and greet event at the bar. We chatted and danced for an hour or so and were invited to a playroom. When we went up there were already 3 women on 2 beds getting gangbanged by a line of guys. The room was packed. She was a little surprised at the activity and she didn’t really know what to do.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We just watched for a few minutes. I was whispering in her ear that if she wanted to join she was welcome to do. We were in the line for the gangbang, I had every intention of taking a turn myself. Anyway, there was a guy in front of us who clearly had the same interest. He was listening in to my encouragement and finally asked if he could touch her tits. I said yes. It was like an electric shock to her. She kept brushing her hand on his cock, BBC. I told her it was ok if she wanted to give him a blow job. She dropped to her knees and started to suck him reluctantly, she kept looking back at me expecting me to stop her. I opened my pants and pulled my cock out for her to play with as well. That was the last straw for her. She accepted that I was OK with the play and began to blow the first guy enthusiastically as well as switching back to me. I invited a third guy to join the blow jobs. I’m not entirely sure how but we got her to her feet, walked her to the bed in the hotel that had an open corner and laid her down. For the next hour she fucked at least 10 guys, myself included. I kept a watchful eye on her to ensure condoms were used but aside from that allowed whoever wanted a turn free access to her mouth and pussy. Almost all the guys that fucked her were black. I joined one of the other gangbangs in between turns with her.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? She was rather emotional, she experienced a euphoric high during the gangbang but crashed hard afterward. We went to our hotel room and crashed out to sleep. We are still dating. We are in a typical couple relationship and play with others but only with the knowledge and consent of the other. We only play with others at parties and events. We play together regularly. We have had many other threesomes and a couple of small gangbangs since but never this large or long.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Intoxication, Peer pressure, It was easy / convenient

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Her and I. She loved it.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Somewhat

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Breaking out of a sexually unsatisfied previous sex life

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I was not expecting her emotional comedown. I was a little unprepared to offer her care after so I had to think on my feet a bit but we worked through it together.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? It hasn’t, I enjoy group sex.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? None

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I enjoy reading the experiences of others.

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