What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 31
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? Swindon
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Horny
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 18
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1

My First Gay Experience

How long ago did this hookup happen? 5 years ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? Group sex

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? A gay couple, one quite large, 35, one 31, very obese. Met them on a gay hookup site, talked to them for a few days before meeting them. I like bigger people of both sexes so was looking forward to meeting them. They were nice and knew it would be my first time.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We organized to meet at 11:30 on a Saturday night. On the hookup site, I told them what I would like to try and they said they would like to help me have my first experience so it was a mutual decision to meet.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? They picked me up around the corner from my street so no one would see me get in. We said our hellos and they asked if I was sure I wanted to do this. I said of course and we drove to a new development on the edge of town that was still under construction and parked up. We made sure the coast was clear and started walking down a path that led to a country lane with a bridge over a stream. We stopped on the bridge as it was a good view down a straight long old path so that we would see anyone coming. We stood there for a few minutes in silence looking around. I saw John, the really big guy, with his hands down his tracksuit playing with himself so I slid my hands inside mine and began playing with mine too. Geoff, the slightly smaller guy, began unbuckling his belt and unzipped his fly, letting his dick out. I was staring at him slowly pulling his cock—it was the first time I had seen another guy playing with his dick before in real life, and I was rock solid now so I pulled my bottoms down showing Geoff and John my cock. We stood and wanked for a few minutes before John let his tracksuit bottoms drop right down to his ankles showing off his tiny but fully erect dick—it must have been 3 or 4 inches at the most. I didn’t know how to move forward from this, I was quite nervous but extremely excited. Luckily John moved closer and quietly said: “Can I touch your cock?” I replied in a split second, “Yes, please do John”, and I let out a moan of pleasure as he wrapped his hand round my cock and slowly wanked it. Geoff came closer and John started wanking him too. I was so horny right then, I needed to feel what a cock felt like in my hand, so I reached out and grabbed John’s little dick and started wanking him with one hand and running my other hand over his big fat naked ass cheeks. Geoff got down on his knees and took John’s hand off my cock and licked my bellend which made me groan then he grabbed it nice and tight and stroked both of us before starting to suck my cock. “Oh god,” I let out as he did, then after a few seconds he started sucking John’s cock and switched between our cocks every few strokes. I was so fucking horny when he took my dick out his mouth I got on my knees too and waited for John’s prick eagerly. He pulled it out of Geoff’s mouth and rubbed it on my lips before I started sucking on it. It was the first cock I had ever had in my mouth so I just tried to do what I thought was right, and by his groans it was right. I grabbed his ass cheeks pulling him closer to my face till my face was nestled in his pubes. “Oh god you must have done this before,” he said, “Geoff you have to try this.” I turned and Geoff was pumping his cock inches from my face. I could see his precum dripping from his helmet. I licked it before taking his cock in my mouth and sucked as quick as I could on it. I was lost in lust and then I heard John saying, “Quick Geoff I’m going to cum.” As Geoff pulled his cock out my mouth I saw John tugging his little dick fast and hard. Geoff got on his knees just in time for John to blow his load on his face. Geoff stayed on his knees and said to me: “Xan I taste your cum please, Mark?” So I put my cock back in his mouth and he started sucking me nice and hard. I was so close to cumming, watching my cock get sucked by a guy with cum running down his face that in less than 30 seconds I was emptying my balls down his throat. “Mmm, big load there Mark, I loved that.” He stood up and John started tugging at his cock before getting on his knees and sucking him. I wanted to get another chance to suck him too so I got to my knees and we took turns sucking Geoff off. After a few minutes Geoff started to moan that he was going to cum. I was nervous about him shooting in my mouth so I took his dick out my mouth and started wanking him. He groaned, “Oh in going to cum,” and John opened his mouth wide as Geoff took his cock from my hand and pumped himself over the edge and began shooting cum in to John’s waiting mouth.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? They dropped me off at home afterwards and we all said we had a good time the next day I felt great that I had a good experience and we would hopefully meet again I really like these guys and have had many more meetings with them

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Thought it was an important experience to have

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Getting to experience new things

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes I knew I liked to play with guys

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I like to have sex with a loving relationship but also like getting to do stuff I wouldn’t tell anyone about

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Good

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