What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 18
What’s your race/ethnicity? Southeast Asian
What continent do you live on? Asia
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 7
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
My first gay experience (virgin)
How long ago did this hookup happen? 3 years ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He was a 5’9 with a sweet dark (typical Southeast Asian) skin tone with a somehow curly tone. He was dressed casually with his backpack from work. I met him on Jack’d.
The only thing on my mind on that time, I just wanted to experience it
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I was in my student apartment, it was my day off during the odd weekdays and I was just browsing gay porn. I was also active in gay applications but never ever shown my face pictures to anyone. This guy, Dan (fake name), texted me if I wanted to meet and hang out with him. I was a little bit hesitant, as I never met someone from a media.
Somehow I just said yes, sent my face photo and he was actually near my apartment in a restaurant with his friends.
We decided to meet in front of my apartment gate and saw him with his bunch of friends.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I brought him to my room and had a small talk. Since it is a small studio, he dropped his backpack and I immediately sat on my bed. After our small talk, I seriously don’t know what to do as this was my VERY FIRST HOOKUP. i told him, i was very nervous and never done anything (especially with kissing).
He told me to relax and do anything that you see in porn movies. As nerdy as I am, I started imagining I would pound him really hard from the back, but in a reality I was still too nervous.
He started to dress down, it was also my first time seeing, touching and sucking a cock. I started to suck his cock and I kissing each other. Dan slowly undressing me and keep kissing my neck. I was already hard inside my boxer. He slowly grab my cock and pushed me to my bed. As he take off my short, my uncut cock was hard and he was giggling a little bit. He started to lick and kiss the head. i felt funny at that time and i told him to deep throat mine.
As my cock slowly entering his mouth, I felt something I never felt before. I told him to keep sucking for 10 minutes. Bear in mind, it was also late at night, around 1 AM, I was also to tired. He insisted me to fuck him, but i didn’t want to do it raw. We ended up jerking off to ourselves He came first, and I shoot really hard it hit my glasses, hair and the wall.
He was impressed with my cum and we ended up kissing and ended our ONS that time.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? I don’t know
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After him dressing back, I brought him down to the gate and said my good bye.
I felt pretty horrible actually. Sex is not a big talk/thing back in a place where i grow up. I started to cry and I shouldn’t have done the hook up. I took a long shower and threw away that bed sheet that Dan sat on and placed a new one. I felt better after sleeping it through
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but I didn’t give a ‘no’
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but didn’t give a ‘no’
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I talked to one of my best friend, she was very supportive and made me comfortable.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Very
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Do you regret this hookup? Very much
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