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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 20
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Columbus, OH, USA
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Bicurious
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 3
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None

first gay sexual experience

How long ago did this hookup happen? Last week

What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (monogamous)

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? joe was 5’10” about 250 lbs so a little on the heavy side. he had a nice thick 6.5″ cock. didn’t know him all that well because we had just started talking to each other on Grindr that day.but he had plenty of previous experience as I had none.we met at the gym I  worked out at, snap fitness in Circleville, at night(24 hour gym, nobody ever there at night). I was already there and when he got there I let him in. he made me feel comfortable and eager which up until that point no one had done. I was super excited.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? very little planning, I pitched one idea and he was down for whatever. When he got to the gym, I let him in. We walked around and he stood next to me as I did some workouts. all the while we were chatting with each other. Then I told him that he could go wait in the bathroom if he wants (each bathroom was pretty big with its own shower stall. he was in there for about a minute before I walked in. He instigated it a bit and so did I because we were both eyeing each other’s packages and semi hard dicks.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I got naked and got in the shower. We started to make out a little and checking each other’s naked bodies out and grabbing and stroking each other’s cocks. He pointed out how I just went for so I must have been really eager, I was. Before long, he turned the shower off and got down on his knees and started to suck me off. This was the first time a man had ever touched my dick. right away I was moaning because of good it felt, before long I had to stop him because I was close to finishing but I didn’t want to yet. so he switched. I was now on my knees I grabbed his dick and was really nervous, which he saw, so he said for me to just close my eyes and open my mouth. I did and he put his hand on the back of my head, then I felt his dick touch my lips. I opened my mouth even more as he slid his shaft into my mouth, my first taste of dick. I loved it. I opened my eyes and started to do it myself, he kept giving me tips which really helped. I did this until he said I was doing a good job, just a little bit longer when he asked me if I wanted to do something else, I said we should try. He asked if he could top first, to which I eagerly accepted. I got on my hands and knees as he got on his knees behind me.  He got his lube out and massaged it into my anus and on his cock. He worked on just getting the tip in, which took some good effort, but when he got it in it hurt so good, like it hurt but in a good way, after which he gently slid the rest of his shaft in until his thighs hit my ass, then he slowly slid it in and out of me like a piston. He went super slow until I was well adjusted to it, that’s when he started to go faster and a little bit harder, then he asked if we could switch positions. I said I didn’t wanna top yet, he said that he wanted me to lay on my back, I turned over. He slid back into me this time he was playing with my dick too. he went slow for what felt like forever. Then he asked if I was ready for him to cum, I said on my face, he then thrust into me a few more times before pulling out and standing up. I got on my knees in front of him and blew him again untile he pulled out of my mouth and stroked himself until he came on my face. he stayed there while I jerked myself until I too came. He was really good at it, especially for my first time.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After we each came we turned the shower back on and cleaned ourselves up. He left before I did. I did some more workouts before leaving also. still nobody else in the gym when we left. I felt so happy for myself because I fulfilled a lifelong dream of mine, also a little guilty because I cheated on my fiance. I will get over it. Maybe he and I can do some more in the future but for now we stay in touch and text each other.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Discussed STI testing history

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Thought it was an important experience to have, Everyone else was/is doing it, It was easy / convenient

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? nobody that knows me, I tell strangers on Whisper and Grindr

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? A little bit

Why do you regret this hookup? I cheated on my fiance

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? my first time and doing it in the shower at my gym which was a fantasy I always had

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? nothing

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I just know now to be careful, but I am definitely open more hookups in the future. I now don’t consider myself bicurious but instead bisexual

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I became more private and I think I prefer it that way, I don’t want everyone knowing my business

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