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What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 52
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? Hamburg
Highest education received: High school diploma
What’s your occupation? Medical Assistent
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Unsure / Questioning
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? No
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 20
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None

First interracial sex experience

How long ago did this hookup happen? n. a.

What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (monogamous)

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? It happened on my vacation. Purely coincidence; he was a black masseur

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? No instigation at all

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? He did his normal job, but touched my thighs more than usual, then he fingered me when he felt that I got aroused. He locked up the door of the massage room, kissed me and fumbled his huge black penis out. Then he pounded me in different positions. I screamed when he took me doggy style. Later I satisfied him with my mouth. It was the sex adventure of my life. We practically didn’t talk. He was very nice, but dominant. I had to leave the next day and never met him again. Now I crave for more such with black lovers. Of course, my husband must not know!

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Well, i felt sort of guilty, but i really enjoyed the sex with him

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant, I don’t know if my partner was on any (other) method

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, To feel more desirable, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it, It was easy / convenient, I didn’t want it but was unable to stop it

How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? I don’t know

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Not at all

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but I didn’t give a ‘no’

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? to nobody

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? … I could die for!

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? nothing at all!

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? yes, a lot

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? no

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I’d let it happen again!

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? good thing

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!

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