What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 36
What’s your race/ethnicity? Hispanic / Latino/a
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Utah
Highest education received: High school diploma
What’s your occupation? Supervisor
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (open)
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 40+

First MaleMaleFemale

How long ago did this hookup happen? 3 days ago. 1/28/19

What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (open)

How would you best classify this hookup? Group sex

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? My wife and I met them on a swinger site about six months ago. We have all become very close since. He is a fit 45 yr old who mtn bikes and skies. She is a sexy and very young looking 39yr old who has been going to the gym with my wife for months now. Both very good looking, she is incredibly beautiful with tan skin, sexy legs and great tits. He has that attractive peppered hair thing going on that my wife loves. And they are super fun to hang out with.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We have all been friends for a couple months now. There was a Onesie (like pajamas) bar crawl organized downtown and we all ordered a onesie and signed up for it. It started pretty early in the day around 4 pm. We spent the night bar hopping from one place to the next. Towards the end of the night we wanted to go into a bar that had a dress code. My friends knew the owner and asked if the woman would be allowed into the bar with their onesies. Luckily they let the women in, and me and the husband went and changed our shirts really quick. We had a few drinks there before heading back to my place. Once we got home my wife got tired pretty quickly since it was around 2 a.m. So I walked her to bed and told her I was going to stay up with our friends for awhile.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? It was just the three of us downstairs at this point. I went to grab a beer and when I came back the husband was all over the wife and she was still wearing her sexy onesie with the single zipper all the way up. Up until this point we have all only talked about doing a threesome. But here, we were in the perfect situation for this to happen. He obviously wanted more than to just kiss his wife and since I have already been with her multiple times as well, I jumped right in and started kissing the other side of her neck and putting my hands all over her body. She took turns kissing each of us as the other would move down her neck and pull her zipper down a little bit at a time exposing her beautiful breasts and sexy bra. She was in ecstasy with all the attention from two guys at once. By the time we had her completely out of the cute pink onesie we took turns pleasing her, I went down on her and removed her panties and licking her soft wet pussy while her husband got undressed. We laid her down on the couch and the husband got between her legs and started fucking her. I moved up towards her head so she could put me in her mouth and suck my cock while she had a cock in her pussy. She is amazing with her hands and mouth. I already knew this because I’ve been with her sexy ass multiple times. After a couple minutes I asked him “hey man can I fuck your wife?” At which point we switch positions. I got between her legs and put my cock in her wet warm pussy and began fucking her right away while she sucked and stroked her husband’s cock. I really enjoyed the view of watching her suck her husband’s cock while I fucked her. We switched positions a few times. At one point she got on her knees and sucked my cock while her husband laid down with his head between her legs and licked her pussy. It felt great having her moan with my cock in her mouth. Then she laid flat on her stomach on the couch and with me still in her mouth her husband fucked her from behind and came inside her pussy. He went to get a towel to clean up his mess. Then he went outside to have a cigarette leaving us two alone . I got on top of her from behind and fucked her for a couple of minutes. Her husband ended up going straight to sleep in my guest bed. So her and I laid together on the couch talking for a bit. It was a nice way to calm down together after such a wild experience. She asked me to sleep with her on the couch but I had already promised my wife that I’d come back to bed at some point.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? No, but I was close

Did your partner have an orgasm? No

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? The next morning I heard them in our guest bedroom getting ready to leave. So I went and chatted with them for a bit and walked them out. When my wife woke up I told her what she missed out on. She was fine with everything.
This hook-up happened on a very early Sunday morning (2am-ish). I was alone with her again at her house the next Tuesday. More sex and some hot tub time. I thought about writing a separate post just for that night but it’s easy enough to add here.
She is absolutely amazing. I think very highly of this woman and her husband. And I have A LOT of feelings for her.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection

How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I told my wife about it the next morning when she woke up.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? I loved seeing her enjoy all the attention. Watching as she moved around and the sounds she was making were very sexy

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I did not have an orgasm but I blame that on the alcohol.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? I’m hoping to give my wife the same experience soon

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I think it would be great if we could speak more openly about it so everybody could have a better education and feel more confident about themselves

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? . This is a fantastic sight. I love reading the stories

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