What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 38
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Toronto
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (currently pursuing)
What’s your occupation? student
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (open)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 11
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

first mfm

How long ago did this hookup happen? June 2016

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? My wife and I found a single guy on a swinging website and she messaged him a one day and we agreed to meet the next to see if there was any sexual chemistry. He was a good-looking guy, maybe 6’2 or something, maybe 180 or 190 lbs. Easy going and relaxed. It was a pretty good fit for our first mfm.
My wife [Kenzie] is gorgeous, a real spinner. 5’2, 115lbs of pure fitness. A girl next door face, with beautiful b-cup tits, and just about as good an ass as you could imagine.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We met at a pub for a drink a short distance from out place and has a coupe drinks and chatted, just to see if there was a connection. I had given my wife a free pass to accept or reject as it really didn’t matter a whole lot for me, as I just wanted another guy with whom I could fuck my wife. And she wasn’t fussy either; she just wanted to bang two guys as well. After our second round of drinks, I went to the restroom and my wife asked him if he wanted to come home with us; which, he obviously did [my wife is gorgeous].

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We got back to our place and Kenzie and Derek sat on the couch. I took a position slightly off to the side to see Kenzie in action. She asked if she could kiss him and he readily agreed. Kenzie was wearing a tight body-con dress and as they were making out he slid his hands down her side and lifted the dress up over her hips exposing her ass. Kenzie rarely wears panties in these types of situations and as he was kissing her and grabbing her ass, he pussy was spreading and you could see the wetness already.
We went upstairs to the bedroom and they started making out on the bed while I sat back and enjoyed the sight. She pulled his cock out and he was at least 8 or nine inches and very thick. Kenzie looked impressed and started blowing him. After sucking on his cock and balls for a bit he started fucking her in missionary. At this point I took off my clothes and mounted Kenzie’s face. We took turns on her for the next couple of hours, doing just about everything we could do to her. We DP’d her numerous times and he fucked her ass multiple times while she blew me. It was pretty hot watching her take his huge cock in her ass, as she was begging for him to go harder and deeper, and he obliged, slamming his cock into her asshole deep and hard. It was very sexy.
After some more various positions, we laid Kenzie on her back and he mounted her face while I fucked her missionary. She jerked him off and sucked his balls while I fucked her. I pulled out of her pussy and brought my cock to her mouth and drained my load into her mouth as she swallowed every last drop. He looked on approvingly. I then sat back and watched him finish her off in down-doggy. He fucked her hard in that position, with the books in our bedframe-bookshelf falling on top of them! He came inside her [in a condom], much to her delight. All in all, Kenzie came approximately 9 times throughout the encounter.
We cleaned up afterwards, thanked Derek for a great evening and then went to bed shortly after. We were pretty tired!

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We felt great after the encounter, and started planning our next one for as soon as possible. Whether or not it will be with Derek is undecided, but we would love to host him again. We would love to meet a few more single guys, have experiences with them, in the hopes that we could have them all over sometime for a Kenzie gangbang!

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms, Sterilization

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting, Thought it was an important experience to have, Making new friends

How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? A few of our friends that we talk about our sexual life with. They all responded very positively. Sex is not something that we shy away from in our lives, and we see it as a fundamental aspect of what it means to be human. We enjoy experimenting and the people we share these experiences with do so too.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? It was out first DP experience and Kenzie took it like a champ, especially given the size of Derek’s cock. It was hot as I was on the bottom, Kenzie was on top on my kissing my while I penetrated her vaginally and Derek was behind her anally penetrating her. It was so fun to see Kenzie’s expressions with both her holes stuffed. She loved it.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? That we didn’t have any more guys with whom to pleasure Kenzie.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Not at all.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Would love to see the opinions on casual sex relaxed more. It would be great if people could see things like casual sex, porn, as potentially healthy tools, rather than as negatives which are guilt/shame inducing.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Love it! Super interesting

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