What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 20
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA Las Vegas
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Student
What’s your current relationship status? Dating casually
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 20
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None
How long ago did this hookup happen? 1.5 years ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? Group sex
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? They were two guys who lived together across the hall from me in the dorms. Both were kinda nerdy, engineering guys. We had met a few times before but never really hung out. This was the second or third weekend we were all in school.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I came home from a party on a Saturday night really drunk. My friends left me in my room but I didn’t stay. I went to the bathroom and on the way back, I noticed that their door was open. I said hi and we started hanging out.
I’m not totally sure what all happened in the beginning, but I know it was me that started talking to them.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? A lot happened. Pretty much all of the above.
Somehow, it came up that neither of them had tried anal. I have always kind of liked it, and was really horny, so we tried it. Both took a turn. One of them had a really big penis, probably the biggest I have ever had. It hurt a bit at first but surprised me and ended up being amazing! Gave me a crazy orgasm. This went on for quit a while. I was drunk enough to be way too into it.
It hadn’t come to my mind but they brought up double penetration. We tried it but it was really hard to do. They kind of started but it hurt and they couldn’t really figure out how to make it work for more than a min.
We fooled around until way early in the morning and I ended up sleeping in one of their beds.
I loved it! I had always been in a relationship before and it was my first time just going for it! I instantly wanted to try again!
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I went home the next morning. There was an awkward day or two but we became great friends. That was definitely not the only time we hooked up together…
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting, Intoxication
How intoxicated were you? Completely wasted
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Pretty much no one.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The fun while it was happening. Especially that moment it registered in my mind.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? How sore my butt was the next day… lol!
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? It made me want to try more threesomes and group stuff. It was my first time outside of a committed relationship.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
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