What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 45
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Texas
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Business
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (open)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 10
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

First MFM

How long ago did this hookup happen? 3 weeks ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (monogamous)

How would you best classify this hookup? Group sex

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? My wife and I created a profile on AFF and selected one guy we meet through AFF to meet in person and have our first experience

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? It had been my fantasy to see my wife having sex with another man so I was the one that started this.

We meet the guy at a local hotel.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We meet at the hotel bar and had a few drinks once we felt a little more comfortable with the guy we went up to the room, set some music as my wife used the restroom. When she came out, he started dancing with her pulling her very close to him and exploring her body with his hands as they danced. He then kissed her and as he was kissing her he pulled her dress up and started grabbing her butt and he then started to finger her pussy. As he fingered her, she started to unbutton his shirt then she unbuttoned his pants and slid her hand in his pants after a few minutes making out and undressing each other as they danced she kneeled down and started giving him a bj. Once he was hard, he pulled her up and guided her to the bed, spread her legs and went down on her as I kissed her after a few minutes he moved up and started fucking her missionary style. He started increasing the pace until he came in her and as he pulled out I started fucking her while she was giving him a bj to get him hard again. She felt so good with her pussy full of cum and looked so beautiful sucking his cock that I exploded in her, I pulled out and she kept sucking his cock until he was hard again. He then turned around and lifted her ass and started fucking her doggy style for several minutes until he came in her again. He started kissing her and making out with her until he got hard again and started fucking her in different positions. This went on for about 2 hours.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? My wife and both felt great and our relationship has strengthened even more sharing this experience together. We are planning to meet our new FWB again in a week or two.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Sterilization, Fertility awareness (days counting, temperature), Discussed STI testing history

What were your motives for this hookup? Learning new things, experimenting

How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Somewhat

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My wife talked to her best friend she was very encouraging

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Seeing my wife being the center of attention of two men taking turns to please her, and sharing a new experience together.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? When our FWB inserted his finger into my wife’s ass she hates anal play.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes we are more open to try new casual

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Great way to express and see what others think

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