What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 44
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Africa
What country and/or city do you live in? East London
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Self-employed
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 200+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

First MMF

How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 weeks ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (monogamous)

How would you best classify this hookup? Group sex

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Never met before, found them online. Similar build to me and looked for similar characteristics to myself when searching. No strong feelings and the guy seemed ok. My wife of 13 years is attractive and she has pert breasts and is curvy.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? It was meant to be a no pressure meeting and we all got on well. The subject never went around sex and we went to bed.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Not long after this I masturbated my wife and asked if she’d like the guy to join us. She was incredibly aroused and wet. I went to our guest’s bed and woke him and told him to join us shortly. I then went back to my room and brought my wife to orgasm with oral sex. While she was coming down, I slipped my cock inside her and began to slowly move. At this point, our guest, who had been watching, got in bed next to us and began feeling her breasts. I slipped out and lay next to my wife and guided her hands to his hard cock. She stroked us both while we took it in turns fingering her and sucking her nipples and breasts.
She was still sensitive so moved downstream bed and slowly started to suck both of our cockspurs, one at a time while masturbating the other. He stopped her after a while and shot huge amounts of cum up his body. I was close but due to how tired we all were I waited until the next day. It was such an incredible turn on.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? No, but I was close

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? It brought my wife and me even closer. We realized the lack of jealousy between us and trust we had for each other. It’s a strange thing to say really. We were already madly in love, but it enhanced what we had.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, No penetrative sex happened

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? A small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Somewhat

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The intimacy and seeing how turned on my wife was and the closeness afterward between us.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? We were too tired to continue on a school night

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes. It’s made us question the judgment we both had about what people played in threesomes etc. I become more open-minded to trying things.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Can’t wait for our friend to visit again

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? It’s given me experience sexually, opened my mind and body to love. As long as your health is a priority for you and your partners (safe sex/no the history ) and you and the people. In question are having fun, go for it. Just take time to make sure it’s pleasurable for everyone. Fuck someone and make them remember you with a smile.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? A great release when unable to tell people, because you live in a small community. It’s like confession for the boastful.

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!