by Ali Crunkle
What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 20
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Ames, Iowa
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Student
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 3
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
First Night Back at College
How long ago did this hookup happen? 5 months ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? This guy I met was about 6 ft. red hair and a scruffy face. I had only known of his existence for about 5 hours before we hooked up. We met on the Tinder app because I was bored and nobody was back to Ames yet. Before we hooked up he seemed kind of cool but I realized he was super clingy. Not happening here.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We went to a movie the night we matched on Tinder and I drove over to his place. At the movie he kept trying to kiss me so I played along. I don’t remember any of the movie or which movie we even went to because we made out the entire time practically (sorry to whoever was in that theater trying to enjoy it). We went back to his apartment and I was just going to go inside and leave that night. turned out we never stopped making out and he wanted to go further. I wasn’t new to the sex thing so I went for it. He was so TINY, but hey sex is sex! After that I fell right asleep and he woke me up with the largest hickies I have ever received. I also had a rug burn looking deal on my face from his scruff. We had to bang one more time before I left because I was so horny that morning. Once I left I never talked to him again.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? The hookup started out with us getting naked and just making out. I then began to suck him off and get him going as a tease. I was thinking about leaving after that. We then had vaginal sex and he was pulling my hair like none other. I decided it would be better if I just got on top and rode the crap out of him. He was so small that I didn’t even know if he was in half of them time. Apparently I was being to loud for his roommate that he had to cover my mouth but I was just trying to make up for how small he was so I could still have a good time. He kept calling my by his ex-girlfriend’s name and I just went with it because I love sex. We didn’t have any feelings for each other during the hookup. Once we both orgasmed I got off him and fell asleep about 10 minutes later. We proceeded in the morning doing the same things and waking up his roommate. He wanted to join but that was a bit much for me. I did however go fuck him later that day. I never talked to either of them again.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Somewhat
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After the hookup I didn’t really talk to him again. I felt pretty good the next day and went for round 2 with his roommate. I had no expectations with him in the future but he thought we were going to have a relationship. He still annoys me with Snapchats all the time.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? A little bit
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Nobody else knows.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone.
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Getting laid the first night being back.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? He doesn’t stop trying to get more.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Casual sex is the bomb.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Somewhat positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Good idea to let other know about whats going on and hear stories.
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