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by Ariana

What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 20
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Australia
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your current relationship status? Single
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Mainly straight but have hooked up with females in the past.
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 9 Males 1 Female
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? This is my third

First of hopefully more.

How long ago did this hookup happen? Few nights ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a month

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He’s tall, attractive and has really nice eyes, just got out of a massive relationship and a messy break up. I met him through mutual friends, we began to talk outside of the times all our friends were together and started hanging out together just us. We began talking via messages and such and realised we were both kind of into each other. He wanted a friends with benefits kind of relationship and I was open to that too. I was/am however a little worried about gaining feelings for him.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Through text we arranged that we would hook up that night. I went around to his and hung out for a few minutes then went straight to the room. We had a shower together in the dark where he really paid so much attention to me. It was really sensual in a sense and exciting, the dark made it so much more exciting because it was all touch, no see. And seeing as I was so attracted to him it was just so hot.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? In the shower we were all over each other. He fingered me loads, and fingered my ass too which I really enjoyed. We dried off and went straight to bed. We kissed a little more then I hopped on top of him kissing still. I moved down and tried to suck him off but the angle he was laying and the angle of his dick it didn’t really work properly. I got on top and straddled his dick. It had been a good 3 months since I’ve had any action so it was really tight and felt amazing. His dick was pretty big. It hit all the right spots. After a few minutes he pulled out because he was about to cum. He put a condom on, and got on top of me. After a few more minutes of doing me from on top he came. We showered again and hung out for a bit, then I went home.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? No, not even close

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We had another shower, hung out for a bit then I left. I felt like he wanted me to leave after, even though it was sort of initially planned to be sleeping together too. I felt a little awkward so I left. The next day he sent me a few snapchats and I didn’t respond. He texted me a while after asking why I was so quiet. I said he seemed a little different after we had sex last night and that he wanted me to leave. He reassured me and said everything was fine. I think there’s no problem in saying we will probably have a few more encounters.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, Condoms, Discussed STI testing history

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s)

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I told my best friend. She was kind of shocked that I didn’t stay the night and that it was literally just a booty call. She think’s he’s really honest and blunt and doesn’t know what to think of the situation. She’s worried I’ll gain feelings for him and he won’t feel the same.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? He had a really nice dick, big and curvy hit all the right spots. I was really attracted to him and it’s always satisfying when you get something you’ve wanted for a while. The way he touched me in the shower was so hot and when he grabbed my neck!

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? He came pretty quickly, it was disappointing. That I didn’t stay the rest of the night. & that it feels a little different now. And that I couldn’t give him proper oral, I’d love to please him.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I’ve always loved sex, and casual sex. It’s made me a little more confident in what I like in the bedroom.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little positive

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? I will definitely post again if we do have another encounter.

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I personally love sex. I think it’s healthy and fun with the right people. The only thing I hate about it, is not knowing whether you can trust the other person. To me, sex is a very trustworthy thing. It’s where you’re most vulnerable and you have to trust your partner to not do anything you don’t want to do, to not take advantage of whatever the situation may be etc. It’s hard sometimes when a casual sex partner tries to use the situation against you. I think the socially degrading part has a lot to play with this, that people are scared people will find out they’ve had sex with a few people and start getting a reputation.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I love the Casual Sex Project. I think it’s an awesome sense of community not only of like-minded-ness but also a way to freely express feelings, experiences and other things without feeling judged and worried people you know will find out. Sometimes casual sex encounters are kept secret for multiple reasons, and sometimes you just need to let it out. This is a perfect way to do so!

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