What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 24
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Australia
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your current relationship status? Single
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? More than 100

First One Night Stand

How long ago did this hookup happen? 5 years

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was incredibly hot. Brown hair. Slim waist, but with a nice curvy ass. Sexy tattoos on her upper arms. I was out in a club with friends and our eyes met on the dance floor and we started dancing and grinding. After a while, she asked me where I lived. It was nearby, and so she said we should go back to my place.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We walked back to my place with our hands all over each other. It was during my gap year and I was still living with my parents, but they were away. We went straight to my room and we were kissing and touching each other.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? She took her clothes off and asked what I wanted to do. When I told her I wanted to have sex from behind, she got on her hands and knees on my bed and looked back at me as if she was saying “come on then”. It was mind blowing, and I was rock hard. I asked if I should put a condom on and she said she had that side of things taken care off and so I didn’t need to, so I got on the bed and started fucking her. I was over excited and got too hard and fast too soon, so I didn’t last very long. I was embarrassed about cumming so quickly but she didn’t seem to mind and said she’d enjoyed it anyway.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Somewhat

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? No

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? She laughed off my embarrassment and went to the bathroom to clean herself up and I got dressed. Then I walked her to the bus stop and we talked and I waited with her until the bus came. Before she got on the bus she said something like “maybe I’ll see you around” but neither of us really planned on anything more than that one night.

How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? It was new and exciting, and the girl was really hot. It was the first time I ever fucked a girl from behind, as my girlfriend had refused to do it because she thought it wasn’t romantic. There’s something about fucking a girl from behind that’s hard to beat! It was also the first time I ever had sex without using a condom, which felt really good.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I wish I had lasted longer!

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? It was the first casual hookup I ever had. The only girl I had sex with before that was my girlfriend, who I had just broken up with after being together since we were 16. It definitely opened my eyes to the fact that I could attract girls for casual sex and enjoy one night stands.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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