by Liv
Gender: Female
Age: 18

Race/ethnicity: Caucasian/Hispanic
Location: U.S
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0


First One-Night Stand

How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 days ago

How would you best classify this hookup? one night stand

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I met this guy at my old job. He was the hot waiter that all the girls wanted (including me). I quit and never thought I’d see him again which didn’t really matter because we only spoke like 2 or 3 times before.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We hung out the day before we hooked up. Watched some fireworks and went to the carnival. We didn’t really plan it. I mean we flirted heavily but it wasn’t anything serious. The day we hooked up, we went to his friend’s house and had a few beers, then back to his place where he kissed me.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We made out for a bit and then I gave him head while he finished his cigarette. After that we fucked for a while, he bit my shoulder and left some gnarly bruises which I don’t mind. During I felt good. I didn’t have an orgasm but he did. He was pretty chill afterwards but I was tired and left right away.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? We used  a condom and I’m on the pill…we didn’t talk about STI history though.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I was bored and he was hot.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? We were both a little drunk.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Nothing. We haven’t texted or talked since. I don’t mind if we never do again. If we do, I’d hook up with him again but if we don’t its not a major loss.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I haven’t told anyone.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? It was consensual for both of us.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The best was probably the sex itself, it was pretty great. The worst was he kept comparing me to his ex. It hasn’t changed anything for me. Sex is sex. People make too big of a deal out of it.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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