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What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 23
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Atlanta
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Optometric Tech
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? I have been bicurious and have slept with women, but I usually only have sex with men.sin
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 20
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None

First & Only Porn

How long ago did this hookup happen? Two Years

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For 1 to 3 years

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? My partner was a previous classmate in college. He was tall, blond, with brown eyes. We had a lot of sexual tension for a long time, but never had sex.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I had very recently broken up with my boyfriend and needed a distraction. I was house sitting for a friend and knew that if I offered sex, my friend would come over.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? By the time he arrived, I had been smoking a lot of marijuana and taken a shot or two. Once he came in, I flirted and teased him. Once we started fooling around, I told him I wanted to film it. He wanted to, too. We laughed at how weird the situation was and how long it took us to actually fuck. We tried every different position, all over the house and took the camera with us. I came multiple times, but he did not.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? No

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? He left the house and we may have exchanged one or two texts after that and did not speak again for almost 6 months. I was very satisfied with the hook-up. I had no expectations for him because I all I wanted was hot sex. We are now somewhat friends.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Intoxication, To feel more desirable, Submission / Relinquishing power, It was easy / convenient

How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did you consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish

How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My best friend. She was disappointed because we didn’t use a condom but she actually watched the porno we made.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? It was animalistic, uninhibited sex. He was rougher than I was used to and I thoroughly enjoyed it. It was even hotter because we knew we were filming it and could relive it later.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Not knowing if he would share the video or post it online.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? It made me want more casual, noncommittal sex.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? That hook-up was my first one-night stand. I realized how easy it was and soon preferred casual sex over sex with any kind of intimacy. Society doesn’t really frown upon it anymore and women are encouraged to be sexually uncommitted in many ways. i’m glad I am judged less now for my active sexual behavior as I would have been previously.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I think it is fascinating to read and learn about other sexual patterns and to realize how vast the spectrum of sex really is.

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