What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 50
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? petaluma ca
Highest education received: High school diploma
What’s your occupation? contractor
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (open)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? husband assumes the fem role with men from time to timed
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? more than 100
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? none

our first sex with a black man

How long ago did this hookup happen? 10 years ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (open)

How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? my wife and i had decided to include a single man in our sex wife had several years of open marrige in her first marridge and met married men in hotel rooms from 6 to 11pm every tuesday and thursday nite for sex. she also had an ongoing sex life (2 to 4 times a week with a well endowed white stud.From time to time she encoutered me like toww truck drivers to whom she offered her pussy..we met a black man at the bar in our hotel and were taken by him we invited him to our room for sex

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? we both wanted to expand our sex lives by including a single man. It had never occured to either of us that the first man we met and found to be the man with whom we both wanted to invite to join us would be black.we had no proir experience haveing sex with a blk stud but we each found the man to be so compelling that we eagerly invited him to our room…

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? when we entered our room our black stud got naked and sat on the sofa with his longer than usual cock and his balls displayed.. my wife and I stripped with one excetion, my wife kept her stilleto heels on. I was turned on by that. She dropped between his legs and sucked his cock for 4 or 5 min. she then stood up and stepped back and looked at me. I took her place a nd sucked my first black cock and found that it was so hot and nasty that i loved pleaseing him.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Not at all

Did you have an orgasm? I don’t know

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? we both were pleased greatly neither of us had ever had sex with a man who clearly knew what he wanted us to do please him sexually and we both loved being the white couple he had chosen to suck his cock and fuck my wife. Neither of us had ever had sex in which our roles were defined by our sex partner and we both loved it, and the fact that he was black added to our delight! We both loved being his sexual providers and his being black made it even hotter

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Submission / Relinquishing power, It was easy / convenient

How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did you consume? Alcohol, Cocaine

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? we were reluctant to share our story with our friends knowing that there was a strong likely hood that we would be percieved as sluts for haveing sex with a black man and I did not wish to share that I had not just sucked his long black cock several times but had done so because I really loved doing it. My did not wish our freinds to condem her for happly offering her pussy to a black man.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? it was hot nasty sexually delightfull and we both found that we really loved being the sex partners of a man who knew what he wanted of us we were eager and pleased to suck his cock and my wife was pleased to offer her pussy to him.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? not being able to tell anyone about it.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? We discovered that we could and did greatly enjoy sucking and being fucked by a black stranger.we realized that we had learned that it was really hot to have sex with not just a stranger but with a black stranger

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? i learned that under the right conditions i loved to suck cock and espesialy black wife learned that sex withh the right black man was way hotter than with any of the white strangers she had offered her pussy.we both wanted to find another black man we could please!

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? We favor casual sex and have continued to enjoy it.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? do not know enough about it to respond

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