What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 45
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Kansas City
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Engineer
What’s your current relationship status? Dating casually
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Very
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Hetero, but not afraid of male to male contact.
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 8+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 6

First Sex After a Divorce

How long ago did this hookup happen? 13 years

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a month

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was a full figured Puerto Rican woman. She was beautiful, curvy, sexy, and had quite a sexual appetite. I did not know her very well. She wanted to have sex with me after an acquaintance told her I was freshly divorced and horny. We met at a restaurant to talk, then a week later we met at her house. I felt good about her, but nervous about jumping back into the “sex” ring with some stranger.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? The hookup was planned. She invited me over for dinner. She fed me, and then we headed to her bedroom.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We made out and then stripped. She and I talked during foreplay. I was nervous, but she had a way of relaxing me. We made out a lot and she loved to have a guy go down on her. I gladly obliged. There was a ton of foreplay because she sucked dick like a porn star. She was a phenomenal pro at it. She could swallow my whole cock and her mouth was probably big enough for me to stuff my balls in, too.

We 69’d for a long time simply because she was such a great cocksucker. She eventually said, “Are we going to fuck or what?” Lol-my bad. I was enjoying oral a bit too much, I guess.

She rolled off of me, and she offered condoms, but I brought my own. She helped wrap my cock and I slid into her effortlessly after all that pussy eating.

She loved mostly just having a cock in her. She told me she rarely cums or has an orgasm when having sex. No orgasm was not an indicator of bad sex, it just wasn’t normal for her. We fucked for a while in the missionary position, and then I pulled her to the edge of her bed so I could grab her hips and fuck her harder. She was enjoying it as was I–my first pussy since divorce hell. Lol

She laughed here and there because of how I was playing and staring at her breasts bouncing with each thrust. She liked it and asked if I enjoyed watching them. We talked during coitus normally-we were very relaxed by now. Hot talk and normal talk.

She was enjoying herself, and when I announced my orgasm, she wanted it all over her tits. I don’t think I’ve ever seen a woman so excited over cum before (at the time). Her face lit up, and she was in heaven watching my cum shoot out of me all over her mams. I am usually a big cummer, and I did not disappoint with her. Her big mams had cum on almost every inch of them.
I re-wrapped my still hard cock and plunged it back into her, and kept hammering away at her wet, wet pussy. I was a little disappointed I had cum already, but she loved the cum, and I remained hard.

After a nice long run of doing her on the edge of the bed, I had her move toward the center of the bed. I wanted to be able to put my weight on her, make out with her while I fucked her, and put pressure on her clit with my pelvis with my cock deep inside her.

I don’t know what it was that worked, but she was able to have an orgasm with all we were doing to stimulate her. He started to howl as her big ‘O’ approached, and when it hit her it was intense. She probably woke the neighbors, and I know her roommate had to hear her. It was totally fun, and exactly what I needed.

After she came, we changed to doggy, and that is where we ended after a little longer. Me blowing earlier, and in combo with the condoms wasn’t helping me stay hard at that point. I only had half a chubby, but could still fuck her with it. I think she wanted a steel bar, not a jelly donut. Lol. We lay together for a bit and then she walked me to my car. She couldn’t believe she came because it was such a rarity.

I was glad to have made her cum, but disappointed with my performance even though I had fun, and it was great to get back into the saddle again.

We remained friends, and we’re fond of each other. Great fuck buddy. Great first fuck after a divorce.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Somewhat

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We stayed friends, but never had sex again. That’s how it played out, no worries. It was what I needed. My expectations weren’t met. I was pretty good, but then after sexless marriage, I needed to get back in sexual shape–stamina, etc. I bought a Fleshlight, and became a very habitual masturbator. It turned me into a fucking machine, so I got my stamina back, and could go for hours and cum huge loads. This was the fuck session that put me back into gear, so to speak.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Thought it was an important experience to have, To feel better about myself, To feel more confident, Making new friends, Didn’t want to disappoint my partner

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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