What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 50
What’s your race/ethnicity? Indian
What continent do you live on? Asia
What country and/or city do you live in? India
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Business
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (open)
Religious affiliation: World Religion
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Couple looking for single men
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 15
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? o

First Sharing of Wife

How long ago did this hookup happen? 8 years ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (open)

How would you best classify this hookup? Group sex

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I was looking for a guy to seduce my wife who is a shy woman. She is 5’3 and very sensuous. So we both go to a local restaurant, wait for this guy to show up. Him and I have spent at least a couple of hours talking through the whole scenario. He came, we met, and they flirted. Every now and then in the pretext of smoking I left them to themselves. Three mojitos later, I told the guy we would take him and then go to our place. He was sitting near me in the car and I was driving. About ten minutes into the drive he said, “Hey I should go and sit with the lady, she is all alone in the back.” Once that happened it was a roller coaster guide that night. I could only hear and not see. It was raining heavily and it only made things even hotter. They were making out heavy in the back and I was driving with a hard-on.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I insitgated, he responded and my wife did not mind. It was her first time. We planned to hook up the next day along with the third in a Hotel. She shaved, waxed and got ready for the big night. We checked in the evening and had drinks all the way into the night. The third guy came over to the room and made her comfortable and then they both started to make out.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? He brought her to a few quick orgasms. One scene which I cannot forget is she held his hard dick through his jeans while moaning away. He then went down on her and quickly got her to moan his name and he came up with all the juices on his face. He then took her into 69 position and went on pleasuring her. There was no penetrative sex since we wanted to keep it in the next hook up.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? They hugged each other and we dropped him off and came back home and slept. Overall an eye-opening experience seeing how much your wife can enjoy another man. Maybe if I was not present then maybe they would have fucked each other like rabbits. Well thats what happens if the husband hangs out in there.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms, Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Thought it was an important experience to have

How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but didn’t give a ‘no’

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No One

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Somewhat

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? I could see my wife being pleasured by another man. I orgasmed involuntarily by just seeing. She had a great time

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Me being present and inhibiting

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Opened up boundaries

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Looking forward to the next one without me being present

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? needs more open-ness

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Wonderful platform for people to share

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!