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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 50
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Canada
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Sales
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (open)
Religious affiliation: Spiritual
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Cuckold
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 20
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None

First swing club experience

How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 weeks

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than 6 months

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I advertised on Craigslist for someone to sex my partner. He responded to the ad and we set up a meeting. He wanted to show us the local sex club. We met at a pub first then went to the private club.
My partner is tall and well put together and very sexual. He was shorter than her by an inch or so and also very sexual.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? See above. He and I planned it. My partner always has the final say before anything goes on though.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? The three of us went to the club. We had some small talk and then he lead us up to the “playroom”. Immediately, he and my partner started kissing. It was very visually exciting for me. Slowly they removed pieces of clothing until she was nude and he had his pants on. He then laid her down on her back on one of the beds (a padded platform about waist height approx 8 feet square). Unfortunately there were only the three of us in there the whole time. My partner had wondered what it would be like with an audience other than myself. He then went down on her and put a finger inside. Then he manipulated her G spot and she had 3 or 4 orgasms. He periodically used his mouth as well. During this time, she and I shared lots of eye contact but I remained fully clothed through the whole session. She really gets off by seeing me turned on so that really worked for her as well. After about 10 minutes or so, she got up and reversed positions. She took off his pants and laid him back and began to lick and then suck his cock. The visual was very erotic for me. After a few minutes, he put on a condom and she mounted him while he was on his back. She had a couple more orgasms. Then he rolled her over and fucked her with her legs straight up in the air, so he was standing upright and she was at the very edge of the platform. She had a few more orgasms. Then he slid her further up the bed and straddled her chest. He pulled off the condom and jerked off, cumming all over her tits and neck.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After, they got dressed and we all left. She said she definitely wants to meet him again. There was a sex swing there that she wants to try.
No bad feelings after at all. Looking forward to future encounters.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms, IUD (Intrauterine device)

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting, Submission / Relinquishing power, Making new friends

How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one. Until now 😉

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Experimentation. New experience.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? All good

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Open relationships are all different according to what both want. Lots of communication, trust and a very healthy base of love is required for sure. In my experience.

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Would obviously love to see things like this be a little more open. We really enjoy our life.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Awesome forum. Dr Zhana is the bomb.

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!