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What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 29
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? UK
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 6
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

First Threesome

How long ago did this hookup happen? 9 months ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? Group sex

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Met online, I posted an ad saying I wanted a FMF threesome and they responded. We started chatting over text and exchanged pictures. Both attractive and intelligent and after talking in depth about what we wanted we agreed to meet.

I was nervous to meet them in case they were not who they seemed especially as I agreed to go to their house. Also excited as I wanted to experience being part of a threesome and being with a woman.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Quite a little of planning was involved to agree on a suitable date when we were all free. Agreed to go to their house.

Once there we sat and had a few drinks and chatted for a while to calm nerves. After a while he took the lead and kissed his girlfriend and then he kissed me. I then kissed her and it went from there.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Once we started kissing we began to explore each others’ bodies and undressed each other. Once naked they both started to caress and suck my nipples and then they lay me down and opened my legs and started licking and sucking my clit. After a little while we switched and I went down on her using my fingers and tongue on her clit whilst she sucked his cock.

We changed position again so that he fucked her doggy whilst she licked my clit again. At this point we both came.

Our final position was him fucking me missionary whilst she played with my tits and kissed me. He pounded me hard which felt amazing as he has a 9 inch cock and then came in me. She moved down to lick his cum from me.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Somewhat

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? No regrets about this hookup and have met up with them since and plan to continue doing so.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Thought it was an important experience to have

How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Not at all

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Haven’t told anyone as afraid of friends’ reactions.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Experiencing new things and have very hot sex

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Worrying that people may find out

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Made me more comfortable with sex especially casual sex as we all want to same thing and have clear boundaries.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I think there should be less judgement on women for enjoying casual sex.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Think it’s a great way to share stories and talk about casual sex.

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!