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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 66
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? England and (at the time) London
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Government employee
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? I lean towards Cuckoldry
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 6
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None

First Threesome

How long ago did this hookup happen? 42 years ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (monogamous)

How would you best classify this hookup? Group sex

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was blond with blue eyes, of Italian/British parents. K was, like me, 23 at the time. I had known her for 13 years from when I sat behind her in school. I was ambivalent before the hookup, I hadn’t even considered it.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? My wife and I had dated since she was 16 and I was 19, we married 4 years after meeting at ages 20 & 22 respectively. A couple of months after marriage she was unsatisfied in our sex life and I encouraged her to experiment with other men. She did, and for the most part, I didn’t mind. Eventually, she started to go out with someone in my office and I didn’t want to be humiliated with gossip, so I forbade her to continue. I think we were both very young and naive.

My wife had lived opposite the Italian blonde as a child, they had been friends all this time and she invited K to stay the night one evening when I was working a night shift. During the whole night they kept telephoning me at work and giggling asking when I would be home, my boss let me leave early.

I realize now it was entirely contrived by my wife who I think felt guilty at going out with someone in my office.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? When I got home the girls were in bed together. I made some tea and took it to them, I undressed and got in between them.

I started to caress my wife and K, who was wearing one of my wife’s nighties. She had very pale skin and as I exposed her nipple and I remember how pink it was, my wife’s were brown.

I moved my hands down between the girl’s legs. My wife was damp but before I could explore K she rolled away. I touched her bottom, found the entrance to her vagina and slipped a finger in and was blown away as to how wet she was. She was clearly very turned on. I just fucked K while my wife watched until we both came. Afterward, I fucked my wife. I was only 22 and recovery rate was almost instantaneous, in fact so quick, I was able to fuck K again.

Her skin was so much softer and her flesh so much more yielding than my wife’s. The girls did not do anything with each other before or after I arrived.

Having sex with K was such an intense experience I can still recall the most minute details. She was such a submissive lover I find it difficult to make a comparison with anyone else I have been with. She was so accepting, so sensual, so intense, and so wet. I have never experienced anything quite like it in my time. We hooked up again multiple times and it eventually led to the demise of my marriage.

We did not talk about it much at all, I got the distinct impression that my wife was very jealous of what K and I did even though she set it up. I think she was moved by the chemistry K and myself were able to find, we enjoyed much more synergy in that 20-minute encounter than my wife and I had in the previous 4 years.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I felt great. K I think felt great, or at least I think she did because she came back for more repeatedly.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Hoping or expecting it would lead to something more, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but didn’t give a ‘no’

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Only to the 2 girls. My wife didn’t take it well. K was very enthusiastic for more.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Mixed (Some positive, some negative)

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Very

Do you regret this hookup? A little bit

Why do you regret this hookup? I think had it not happened I might still have been married to my first wife. But as I did not instigate it I feel no guilt. My only regret is that I did not meet K in this way first as I think we would have made a good couple.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The sheer sensuousness of having only the second women in my life, and her incredible wetness the like of which I had never experienced before or since.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? The fact that it eventually led to the end of my marriage.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes and no, I still have the desire but I’m much more aware of others feelings.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? I would do it again tomorrow, it was not to be regretted despite the unfortunate outcome.

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Casual sex for some people works well, for others it is not so good. Men like lust, women want a little more emotional connection, how you reconcile the two I can not answer.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Interesting. I like to read the stories and I hope people like to read mine because it is 100% true.

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