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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 25
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? US
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Management
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 11
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

First threesome MMF

How long ago did this hookup happen? Last night

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? Group sex

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He was a long time friend and she is his girlfriend. He is about 6′ 200lbs and she is 5′ 3″ about 115lbs. She has curly blonde hair. I knew him very well and this was my first meeting with her. I consider him to be a trustworthy friend and I had no real opinion of her, as we had just met.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We went out to a bar together. He had been telling me how wild she was and that she would probably get naked for me. There was no actual planing and I suppose he instigated it by encouraging me to touch her while we were still in public. However, we never actually agreed to doing anything.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We returned to my place after a session of drinking pretty heavily (which I really regret). He excused himself to the bathroom. She and I stood awkwardly talking for about 20 seconds before I embraced her and began kissing her. I remarked that we were in the wrong room for this and led her to the bedroom. She undressed quickly as we were making out and I kissed my way down her body until I reached her cleanly shaved and pierced pussy. I began licking her and she gently rocked her hips and moaned as I did. I will admit that there was a slight learning curve as I had no experience with a clitoral good piercing. My friend entered the room at this point and made some silly comment about joining the party. I continued to engage in oral sex with her as he undressed exposing his semi erect cock. She took him in her mouth and began to suck him which instantly provided him a full erection. I realized at this point in the whirlwind of things happening that my cock hung lazily as though all of the erotic things were not actually happening. Not wanting to delay their pleasure I suggested that he take her at this point. She turned over into doggystyle and he entered her now soaking wet vagina. She took my flaccid cock in her mouth and began to suck very casually. I probably could have benefitted from a little more aggressive blowjob because at this point I realized between booze and nerves I was going to have a hell of a time getting hard. I moved to the side of the bed and began my attempt at obtaining an erection as she straddled him and began to enthusiastically ride his cock. This is where it starts to fall apart. I excused myself to the bathroom and took a leak and continued to furiously tug on my cock trying to get hard so I could join in the action. She was in the perfect position for a DP when I came back into the room but all I could do was watch as they fucked. He flipped her over into missionary and began forcefully pounding her. Her bare feet where in the air which couldn’t be more of a turn on for me because I have a foot fetish. In a last ditch effort I exited the room again and quickly pulled up some porn on my tablet and tried to force my cock to cooperate at this point I could hear her cum she was pretty vocal and that’s what put him over the edge and he exploded inside her. I returned to see her clutching a paper towel to her crotch as his thick load spilled out. I joined them on the bed and we talked and joked about my failure to perform and how crazy it was that we even got into this situation. They started getting dressed and just pulled on my underwear. He went off to the bathroom again and she straddled me on the bed and began kissing me. I pulled her top down exposing her tiny breasts again and began sucking on her erect nipples. This one on one time really started to help and I finally began relaxing and my cock started getting hard. He returned to the room and noticed that my cock was semi erect and told her that she should fuck me and he would just watch. This excited the exhibitionist in me and I thought to myself finally this is going to work out. Unfortunately it was pushing nearly 4 am we were all feeling pretty drunk and tired and they had a relatively long drive ahead so she politely declined despite both he and I trying to gently persuade her. She said it would have to wait till another time. They left at this point.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? A little

Did you have an orgasm? No, not even close

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I feel very disappointed in myself on this the following morning. I realized that it would be a mental test and nerves would be at play but I think I could have overcome that if not for drinking too damn much. I also feel guilt because my girlfriend was not the lady involved and can never know. My hopes for the future would be that we do this again as soon as possible and this time, maybe only a couple drinks to relax not an hours long bar session. I feel about the same about my friend and I hope that it doesn’t change anything between us because I enjoy his friendship.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) IUD (Intrauterine device)

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Intoxication, To feel more confident, It was easy / convenient

How intoxicated were you? Completely wasted

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I’ve told my two best friends who thought it was an awesome thing despite me not getting hard. They encouraged me to try to do it again.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Do you regret this hookup? A little bit

Why do you regret this hookup? I wanted to be hot to trot. I was ready to fulfill fantasies. I wanted to try a DP and more importantly, for years I wanted to have a chance at sloppy seconds and depositing my load inside an already warm filled pussy. I felt like a chump (despite her reassuring words).

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The best thing was the experience and being able to enjoy her very cute pussy in my mouth. As noted earlier the image of her tiny wrinkled soles in the air as she was fucked will definitely be stored in my mental “spank bank”

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? The worst thing was never getting to have penetrative intercourse with her.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I know that I didn’t feel weird about being that close to another man in a sexual situation and that now thatI know how this can work I think in the future I could have a lot of fun.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Somewhat positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? No

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I enjoy casual sex and see no problem with it as long as proper considerations are taken for contraception and STI protection. I would like to see the US be more open to sexuality.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? This was a great forum for me to share this experience that I am currently feeling kind of shitty about. I enjoy reading the stories of other sexually liberated individuals.

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