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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 38
What’s your race/ethnicity? East Asian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Canada
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Consultant
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (open)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Very
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 3
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

First Threesome with Wife

How long ago did this hookup happen? 1 month ago

What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (open)

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than 6 months

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? William is a very well shaped guy with amazing muscles and charming smiles. He wears nice beard and no glasses. Somewhat 30 years old and 6ft tall with sports clothes all the time. Pretty bright guy. He is humorous which we can tell from our daily chatting. We do not know each other until we came up with the idea of threesome to stimulate my wife’s sex life. We chat online and choose the nice ones to meet , dinner or lunch or just a cup of coffee. Then we both feel William is the right guy for us. My wife told me she feels excited to think about having sex with him so we decided to move on with more.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I have to say it is my idea to start this planning. I know my wife is just being shy. She gets wet easily while we go outing with her wearing sexy clothes. She will lay her eyes on guys with nice buts and muscles. I know what she is thinking and she always smiles away. We agreed on threesome while we have sex by asking how does she like it, she said yes and she does not deny it after sex. And we chat together online as well to decided which guy to meet.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? After the dinner with William, we keeps chatting online and talked more about sex life after marriage. William is single and for sure he has more passion on sex than I do. After discussion about safty and mutual respect, we decided on a date and a hotel to carry our plan on. I have to say William is really a good guy with lots of respect. He is well dressed like dating a girlfriend with fragrance which my wife told me later on she really loves it. When we entered the hotel room, we had a cup of wine together and I sugguest William took my wife for the bath first. My wife looked at me and William won’t give her a chance to say no, leading her by the hand to the bathroom. It indeed took a while before they came out. My wife told me William is really gentle to give her a nice massage and kissed her from the back. William laid my wife down to the bed and I asked her to close her eyes. She did and we started. I kissed her from mouth to ear to neck and all the way down to stomach, while William kissed her from feet to ankles and all the way up. My wife started moaning and her body moves with comfort. William started kissing her bottom while I enjoyed on her breasts. She is really wet and William grab her legs and penetrated her in. I pushed her hands to the bed and she moaned more. After William gave the first shot, I turned her and entered her hard from the back. William went to her face and put his buddy into her mouth. My wife usually won’t do blow jobs but I believe she already lost her mind after the first orgasm. She just grabbed his buddy and started sucking. I can feel she is moving from inside because I need not wear a condom. After I shot my bullet , my wife looks really tired and she cannot move. William just entered her again from the back until he came again. Now we all laid on bed , breathing and resting. I gave William a thumb and he smiled.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We didn’t talk to William any more as agreed before. It is a just a sex for excitement. We didn’t tell anybody. I can see from my wife that she really appreciate my planning, and our sex life improved a lot since then. Maybe we will plan again in the future.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting

How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? None

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Other

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? We enjoyed this hookup because we found the right person. Everything is going the right way. And it improved our sex after that.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? None.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? It can be a good experience, but we won’t do it often and we will keep being careful about it.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Not recommended until you are very confident with your way to see people.

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? It can be a good thing if you do it the right way with the right person. Don’t forget about the risk involved.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? This is a great platform for us to share our stories. But put more warning for the young guys.

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here

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